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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2020
4 points

Yeah, this happens to me all the time. With name, phone number, address. Before Covid, if my wife wasn't around, I'd open up the notepad on my phone and type everything out, then hand them my phone. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2020
5 points

If I had a quarter for every time this happened, I would own all the stock in Apple. First of all, we've all been through this and you are not alone. Second, it's great that there was someone there ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Preparation & RehearsalQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2020
3 points

Been there many times myself. Sometimes I pretend cough to avoid the first number or just say a totally different number that is easier to say to avoid an embarrassing moment....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2020
9 points

This one is hard for me too, lucky I always have a business card in my wallet with my number on it. A life saver....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
postr/StutterDec 28, 2020
46 points

Couldn’t say my phone number

Couldn’t say my phone number Someone sent me a parcel and I had to tell them my phone number to retrieve it. I just stood there for some time, without saying anything. Although the lady there was real...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 26, 2020
2 points

This has really hit me, we really are the same. Sadly fate isnt on our side. Why does such bullshit always happen. Why is it always the things that we love to do? Why do they backfire? I feel you so m...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2020
4 points

I was working in the drive thru and I stuttered taking telling this man his total and they busted out laughed and told me I need to learn to talk. Honestly I have countless stories like that, being fr...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2020
1 points

I love giving speeches and talking but always am pissed when I can’t get my words out and people lose interest...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2020
1 points

I always shorten my answers to one short sentence with simple words and I'm used to being a good listener . It's important to observe and listen too....

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Quality of LifeAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2020
1 points

I am glad that you can say that you have made peace with stuttering. I don't know your story and don't pretend to sound like I do. But I would like to encourage you to look deeply and ask yourself if ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideQuality of LifeDating & Romance+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2020
2 points

I agree with you on all this, love the fact that I can order food via an app but then they ask my name when I need to pick it up. I know for a fact that I lost some job prospects because I didn’t soun...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Quality of LifeEmployment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2020
1 points

> if we are unsatisfied with out love life, professional life, social life these things that u say, stuttering never gave me a chance to enjoy, in peace with my stuttering I have been for years an...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Quality of LifeDating & RomanceEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2020
2 points

While not married, I’ve been in a serious relationship with my last partner who knew I stuttered and my current partner now. With my last partner I was more fluent and I generally felt more at ease as...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Dating & RomanceEmployment & CareerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2020
7 points

> A task that regular people don't ever think about not being able to do is something that influences you throughout your everyday life. Yeah, pretty much :(...

Social & Relationships
Quality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2020
2 points

Circumnavigation is happening always. I often don't order what I want at restaurants and opt instead for what's easier to say. I find myself abbreviating or shortening things in the strangest ways...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2020
2 points

The only friends I can hope to make are those who I only interact with online and/or those in the deaf community. A severe stutter makes it impossible for me to converse verbally in a practical manner...

Social & Relationships
Loneliness & IsolationQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2020
6 points

As tough as it sounds, just owning the stutter and doing your best to be yourself is key here. My stutter was awful the year I was graduating high school. I’m a senior in college now and it’s still pr...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2020
6 points

You got this! I worked at CFA during high school and as hard as it could be (you gotta be quick there) it was really nice when I had a good stuttering day, not necessarily one where I didn't stutter b...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2020
1 points

I highly recommend finding some children's books your son might be interested in and buying a physical and recorded copy. Try to encourage him to read aloud with the recording in private. My stutter...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Assistive DevicesFluency TechniquesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2020
1 points

Yeah I joined today and I feel absolutely amazing. I recently started getting my self esteem back after I successfully defended my masters thesis. But sometimes it gets so bad that I cannot even order...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life