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commentr/StutterJun 2, 2024
2 points

I don’t stutter when asking people out but once I talk with one coworker I stutter so much I shut my mouth until the shift is over...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2024
15 points

I feel the same way. Our brain seems to subconsciously exert more effort to avoid stuttering when we’re talking to strangers who might judge us, compared to when we’re with friends and family where we...

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commentr/StutterJun 2, 2024
1 points

I feel the same way. Our brain seems to subconsciously exert more effort to avoid stuttering when we’re talking to strangers who might judge us, compared to when we’re with friends and family where w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2024
1 points

Not really, it sucks ass and I hate it. For some, probably. I have found ways around it, so for me personally, no....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2024
6 points

Adopt the mindset of “if I was born with a stutter, then you have to listen to it”. Practice helps also. Speaking is just like anything else and if you don’t use it, you lose it. Try to read out-loud ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterJun 2, 2024
21 points

Why is it easier talking to strangers

Why is it easier talking to strangers I don’t know if everyone has this or just me, but I find that when I talk to strangers, I am a lot more careful and self-conscious about my stuttering. But I can’...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJun 2, 2024
4 points

Stuttering in the Workplace

Stuttering in the Workplace Hi, I've suffered from a stutter all my life. I say "suffered" because my whole life (34) I've hidden away, kept quiet, and refrained from joining social interactions to t...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJun 1, 2024
20 points

Someone once told me “You only stutter because you lack confidence in yourself”

Someone once told me “You only stutter because you lack confidence in yourself” I’ve had confidence issues in the past, but I've gotten better. However, I still stutter. What do you guys think? Coul...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2024
5 points

I often struggle with eye contact too. Sometimes I realize mid convo that I’m looking away a lot and force myself to make eye contact. It can be nerve racking. I hate stuttering and seeing the look on...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterJun 1, 2024
10 points

Anyone else struggle with eye contact?

Anyone else struggle with eye contact? Since I could talk I’ve had a stutter, it’s not major but it’s noticeable. Beside the regular teasing and casual jokes, I haven’t seen many people talk about thi...

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Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2024
5 points

I think in general its the opposite. The perception of people listening tends to trigger stuttering, which is why most people are either fluent or stutter much less when alone....

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Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 30, 2024
15 points

Why is stuttering so embarrassing to talk about?

Why is stuttering so embarrassing to talk about? I notice that me, and a lot of other people who stutter are really embarrassed about their stutter and hate talking about it. Also it seems to be a co...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMay 29, 2024
46 points

I can’t take it anymore

I can’t take it anymore I have a severe stutter and I am becoming 99% nonverbal because of panic and severe anxiety. I know at this point it’s not the stuttering itself; it’s the trauma building up...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2024
1 points

My brain might have erased painful memories, because I don't remember any bullying at all. I was the best student in class academically, and the bullies didn't really mess with me because I wouldn't l...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
1 points

I know exactly how you feel. I’m 98% fluent and I’m considered as a non-stutterer…until I have a small random breakthrough. Even we who are very fluent know we are still stutterers. I can never lose t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & PrideSeverity & Fluctuation
postr/StutterMay 28, 2024
5 points

Call Simulator Suggestions?

Call Simulator Suggestions? Hey, so I’ve just started a new job about a year after graduating from my undergrad - in my final year of college I was outgoing, sociable and chatty. My confidence really...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
3 points

In high school some jerk spread a rumor that I faked my stutter for attention because I didn’t stutter all the time. Mostly just during presentations. I was like yep I definitely faked a stutter becau...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Stigma & BullyingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
2 points

That’s like saying “You don’t look like you have Down syndrome.” I’ve gotten that before, but it’s honestly a good thing that my speech sounds “normal” sometimes...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Hiding & ConcealmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
3 points

Well, I was fully on board until your last sentence. Anyway, yes people tell me all the time that I don't stutter. They think I'm just being self deprecating or something. I don't mind if they say "I ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
4 points

Yea I’ve had people say things like this to me too because I hide it all the time (substitute words, pause, etc) Sometimes people try to help by saying “stuttering isn’t a big deal” it’s almost like g...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more