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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
3 points

Yes, but the hardest part is maintain the new habit and keep a positive mindset throughout the time. When you achieve "fluency" in some day, then the brain realizes there is no needed to maintain the ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
6 points

I love reading your posts. Lately, I have been thinking about my stutter in computational terms. A computer has multiple threads, and each thread deals with a constant stream of data that needs to be...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityTherapy & Professional
Overthinking & MonitoringNeurological & BrainTherapy Experiences+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
8 points

yes, to stop that. You have to stop over thinking and care less about those situations. its the only option...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
1 points

Do you completely overcome stutter by change your thoughts? Like talk to yourself that you are in a safe situation?...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
7 points

haha, so much to unpack here — 1. I’m 26F 2. yes! I do have a social life — my friends accept me for who I am & I found a partner who loves me unconditionally (never finishes my sentence or anyt...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideFriendships & BelongingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
6 points

I can understand ! I mean tbh I can’t comment on what your sister doing ! She’s living her life ! May be that’s what she wants or she knows what she’s doing.. Your parents are a bit conservative so ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
3 points

I was told long ago to roll with the punches. It works but it's exhausting. Kinda just have to make peace with it and try not to think about it lol....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
5 points

I share your opinion. It definitely leaves a mark on how we approach social events/interactions. These days i dont stutter a lot (I used to not able to introduce my self or say my own name), and I kn...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shiftDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2023
11 points

You know why people’s stutter usually gets better as they get older? You give less fucks the older you get. So giving the least amount of fucks is good advice. We are all imprisoned in jails of our...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+1 more
postr/StutterJul 6, 2023
8 points

Anyone with a moderate to severe stutter that is outgoing?

Anyone with a moderate to severe stutter that is outgoing? One of the advice I see from watching TedEX videos from stutterers is to not care about what people think. Obviously working on it with thera...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2023
2 points

I use to cry every time I would go and get cavity fixed. The drilling sound and the smell of my teeth being drilled away wasn’t very comforting. Until one day, I stopped crying all of the sudden. I st...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2023
3 points

Yes, it was a massive problem for me. Over coming that helped A LOT. You have to put your self first and not care what others think...

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2023
2 points

Hey just try to live your truth like the rest of us are in this subreddit. Don't allow your stutter to cause you to beat yourself up....

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2023
3 points

Well that's true, but honestly it requires a lot of introspective thought as well. When you realise that others perception of you isn't really that important, it makes a big difference...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2023
2 points

Yes…although it was not a conscious process or decision on my part. I think that going to college, getting out of your h.s. Friend group…where you are ‘ the one that stutters’, definitely helped me un...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2023
2 points

Yes, I think I stopped thinking of myself as a stutterer. I think the new environment helped me reinvent myself in many ways....

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
postr/StutterJul 5, 2023
21 points

The most helpful things for me so far for stuttering (and life)

The most helpful things for me so far for stuttering (and life) I wanted to make this post to share some things/ideas that have helped me tremendously in accepting/improving my stutter. 1. Always bei...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Authenticity vs. MaskingMindset shiftTrauma & Psychological+2 more
postr/StutterJul 5, 2023
10 points

Isn’t it GRreAt that the only true way to get better at speaking to other people is, to do just that!?

Isn’t it GRreAt that the only true way to get better at speaking to other people is, to do just that!? Obvious, I know. It’s how life is, unfortunately. You can’t just stop caring, thats quite difficu...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2023
2 points

Bruh you don't even know me. I stutter but I don't identify as a stutter. Currently my speech is the best it's been through speech coaching and mental therapy. Stuttering is a spectrum of severity. To...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2023
2 points

Brother I'm a muslim and as much as i want it to be cured, i know it is not going to happen. I like your enthusiasm but tbh THE DAY YOU ACCEPT IT IS THE DAY YOU GET COMFORTABLE WITH YOUR SPEECH....

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift