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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
3 points

As bad as this sounds, I feel like the better you are in some areas, the easier it is to counteract. The problem I find with stuttering is not the dating phase, but women typically want you to get rid...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
7 points

I don’t personally and even if I do it depends on the scenario, like if I got some liquid courage running through my system and it’s a party so my confidence is through the roof. In my experience bei...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
53 points

Girls used to approach me because they thought my stutter was cute. They thought it made me look vulnerable and 'adorable'. Years later when I went to my HS reunion I found out lots of other girls ha...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
18 points

How you do it matters, but what's so much more important is that you simply *do it*, again and again and again. You'll get rejected, of course, but you will also get better at it and more confident. ...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
21 points

That's the fun part! You don't! But honestly, you just do it and deal with the laughter and mockery. 1 out of 10 won't blow you off and you might even get a friend out of it....

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
12 points

I wrote several comments on that topic in this. If you have time scroll through my comment section maybe it helps you, maybe not. I however never had a problem getting/approaching girls...

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postr/StutterApr 24, 2023
84 points

Male stutterers: how the hell do you approach and talk to girls?

Male stutterers: how the hell do you approach and talk to girls? introducing yourself and talking with a stutter is such a huge challenge on top of the already gigantic challenge of going up to a girl...

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commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
1 points

Stuttering and bad blocks makes me frustrated and angry because It makes me feel like I’m stupid and it makes me think others think I’m stupid and incompetent. All the time I see people talk with no p...

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commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
2 points

U said 29/F Then U should talk to this wth ur patner About ur insecurities stammering Anxiety fear of rejection and U should consult therapist And Remove this shit from ur Fucking mind and feel like ...

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
2 points

I don’t really know how severe your stutter is, or how others around you usually react to it, so what I’m about to say may be unhelpful/inaccurate, but I think that you have to really make the distinc...

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
3 points

Like others have said, both are kinda inseparably linked, but if I had to go with one, I'd say confidence. My dad also stutters but he's way more social than me, even though he's not much more fluent,...

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postr/StutterApr 22, 2023
23 points

Losing hope

Losing hope (29/F) Really needing some advice or perspective from anyone here. I feel like my stammer is getting in the way of me actualising everything I want in my life. I’m starting to lose hope ...

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postr/StutterApr 17, 2023
1 points

2o Yr PWS Experience With Girls

2o Yr PWS Experience With Girls im a 20 yr old PWS and i been reading a lot of everyone's post not just about girls about everything and I just felt like it was time for me to talk about some of my ex...

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commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
4 points

My past romantic partners have all said that my stutter was part of what they found attractive about me. They thought it was cute, made me appear more vulnerable and approachable. They also thought it...

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postr/StutterApr 14, 2023
4 points

Alright, I understood that I have no problem to make new friends because they don't care. What about romantic relationships? Is it the same or does something change?

Alright, I understood that I have no problem to make new friends because they don't care. What about romantic relationships? Is it the same or does something change? ...

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commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
1 points

I know it’s weird but humans are weird. It’s weird that we have to suffer from any speech problems in the first place. The hottest girl I’ve kissed said she found my stutter cute, I didn’t understand ...

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commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
2 points

Idk yeah shure you got the point it will prevent/hinder you in some aspects, same as poor eyesight would. When it comes to girls/boys in most cases, i think it's the other side effects of stutter th...

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commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
10 points

My partners were attracted to me partly because of my stutter. Perhaps some of us blame our problems on our stutter, but those problems are actually caused by other aspects of our personalities......

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
3 points

Your speech disability does not define you, you must do everything in your power to try to tame both your stuttering and the demons in your head.. This isnt easy. Only you can make it better, special...

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
7 points

Great, helpful response. We’re older and wiser. It's up to us to show others that stuttering isn't the end of life. That careers and relationships do exist even for us....

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