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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2015
1 points

I guess i'm lucky I dont encounter anyone this rude. But if I heard something like this, i'd immediately lose all respect for them and depending on the situation, see how much I'd like to fuck with th...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2015
1 points

That just sucks. I've only ever had somebody do something like that to me one time, and I will never forget how shitty that made me feel. But I think it's important to realize that people who are that...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2015
1 points

I've wondered why I haven't done this yet...

commentr/StutterMar 8, 2015
3 points

Had it for about 10 years. From my mother. ...

commentr/StutterMar 8, 2015
9 points

I just stop talking and stare at them with pure hatred and death until they realize it's not funny...

commentr/StutterMar 8, 2015
1 points

I haven't had this happen to me. If it did I would certainly want to spit it out. In their face....

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger
postr/StutterMar 8, 2015
11 points

People telling you to "Will you spit it out already"

People telling you to "Will you spit it out already" It's literally the fucking worst. It makes not want to talk at all. I'm 20 years old and I've been dealing with stuttering for as long as I can rem...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Frustration & AngerStigma & BullyingRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2015
1 points

> I'd say most of us have a harder time with people we dont know or speaking to people of authority. For a lot of pws (persons who stutter), we worry about making a good impression or are afraid of...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2015
1 points

you will get over it because there is no other option. your own way to get over it may be by learning every trick and technique to never block again, it may be by being open and accepting about that ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2015
2 points

I'd say most of us have a harder time with people we dont know or speaking to people of authority. For a lot of pws (persons who stutter), we worry about making a good impression or are afraid of list...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2015
1 points

I'm am sorry you have to go through this, my name starts with a B too and also gives me problems. And people take advantage of this to get me. It hurts, but it just take it in my stride. Think o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+1 more
postr/StutterMar 7, 2015
6 points

This might be the worst part, and how do I get past it?

This might be the worst part, and how do I get past it? Been stuttering all my life. With alot of people I´m basicly 100% fluent, in other situations and with some people I stutter like crazy. The wor...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Helplessness & AgencyPower Dynamics & IntimidationAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2015
1 points

No, my friend doesnt the ashamed at all. My point was that if the same thing had happened to me I would probably have alot of thoughts of that sort....

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2015
1 points

I agree, there are very few legitimate reasons to forego responding to requests regarding the outcome of an interview. Though its probably pretty rare, there are some companies out there who keep a po...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2015
1 points

I never used to worry about stuttering during interviews but lately my stutter has been far more extreme, and as it happens I'm looking for a new job and have had interviews. I've taken the same appro...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2015
1 points

not sure if this is too off topic, i will make a new thread if it is, but i have a job interview question: i believe the best approach is to fully disclose my stutter by saying it first thing right a...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2015
1 points

i just started my decade of blocking on my age :( "twenty-whatever" is no problem but "thirty-whatever" gets me most everytime. ive been able to avoid most of it by leading up to it "i am right at t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2015
1 points

if its an "important" person (boss, cop, someone like that) i will respond with "no, i have a speech impediment" (im double cursed in that "st" is a very common block for me). if its not someone impo...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2015
1 points

Well, I'm hope I'm not the only one who stutters whi would have had thoughts like that :-o...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & Names
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2015
1 points

Totally agree and I think you make a great point. A lot of people who stutter and post on this subreddit seem to put a lot of weight on their fluency when it comes to interviews. Obviously nobody is...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career