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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2015
1 points

Thanks I appreciate that. Yeah its best not to care what people think and surround yourself with decent people who don't make life more difficult for you. Good job working as a museum guide, wow that'...

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postr/StutterFeb 28, 2015
17 points

Lately my stutter has been so bad I don't really even initiate conversation

Lately my stutter has been so bad I don't really even initiate conversation This is completely an issue of how I personally feel about my stutter. I shouldn't feel so defeated. But when there are a lo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2015
2 points

It might not be any consolation, but I've had a similar experience. I worked in a call center in my early 20's for about a year and a half. At first when I was making sales, I was able to speak very f...

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postr/StutterFeb 28, 2015
5 points

My severely embarrassing moment

My severely embarrassing moment I've worked in a call centre as a stutterer for 2 months now. Vocally, I've been fine. Smashing out KPIs, bonding with callers, rarely blocking and never stuttered. Tod...

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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2015
2 points

I'm not telling *you* not to do it, I'm explaining why I really don't want to. There is a difference between "not hiding" and "searching for ways to make the problem worse". To me, this idea sounds *m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2015
1 points

Interesting. I find it more annoying when a friend finishes my sentences for me. A) People who don't know me are trying to be helpful ... even though they're not always being helpful. B) my friends kn...

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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2015
1 points

i dont mind if A) its a close friend AND B) they get it right. in ALL other circumstances it is more distracting/insulting than helpful....

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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2015
1 points

but we can't just hide from everything that exacerbates it, can we? That sounds as crappy as stuttering....

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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2015
3 points

it's most frustrating to me when they guess the wrong word. I simply say, "no" then go back to stuttering, lol...

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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2015
2 points

I do understand that. I just foresee this making us stutter worse. I stutter worse when around other stutterers, and I think that's pretty common. To me, this isn't about facing it as much as avoiding...

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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2015
4 points

>Sometimes, having someone finish a sentence is a huge relief. They took the pressure off and now I'm able to move on to the next topic of conversation. >But most of the time, I want to make th...

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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2015
1 points

My personal opinion is that I absolutely hate the idea, no offense. I hate my stuttering. I have noticed that my stuttering not only gets noticed by other people, but makes them stutter a bit as well....

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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2015
5 points

Haha yeah I feel that. Obviously I would prefer to not stutter, but it is kind of nice having a filter that keeps me from saying the first thing that comes to my head at all times. I wouldn't want to ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2015
1 points

Oh gosh, I just saw I forgot to reply to your questions. Sorry about that! Grad school got in the way. Anyway, I don't mind answering your questions publicly. 1.) I think the origin of my anxiety is...

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commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2015
1 points

Do you *have* to use the phone for interviews? I definitely prefer emails and face-to-face myself, because it's easier for me to handle those two situations. So I try as much as I can to set up the c...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2015
1 points

Started this book last week and just by gradually accepting my stutter and talking slower, I already can feel some progress. My biggest fear, as the same of others, is the telephone. If my life depend...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2015
3 points

There were so many little steps I had to do. Because stuttering is different in every person, you have to experiment what works best for you. My previous experiences with SLPs were pretty bad. There...

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commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2015
1 points

You don't have to do anything. "Should" is still fear-based thinking. Do you want to? I really struggled with practicing at home (I usually didn't) because everything seemed stupid and/or embarrassing...

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commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2015
1 points

the calling strangers method is what I did with my speech therapist, he told me I had to practice it at home too, but I never did because I was too scared. I should go and practice more again...

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commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2015
1 points

I also tend to not stutter at all when explaining that I stutter. Kind of weird....

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