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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2022
9 points

I don’t think it could hurt. It may also help to just give her a heads up if it’s going to affect your interactions with her. My husband stutters, and even though I knew he stuttered (it’s pretty obvi...

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Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2022
4 points

I would say bring it up casually once you see her because if you bring it up before, she take you really serious and overthink it....

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2022
3 points

Ya that’s what I used to do in my Tinder days. I’d always let them know before I got on the phone or met them in person....

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2022
1 points

You absolutely should. "Hey just so you know, I have a speech impediment/disorder that causes me to stutter. I do have moments of fluency, but I will likely stutter. It can happen for no reason at al...

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2022
7 points

I think that works too. I havent dated in a long time, so I never used tinder. I used to put that I stuttered on the bottom of my dating profile. Worked for my wife!...

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2022
7 points

>r/Stutter > >Posts Thanks. What I was thinking is whether I should write to her about it upfront. What do you think?...

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2022
19 points

If it calms the nerves, I say do it. My suggestion would be work it into the conversation somehow: Girl: it's pretty cold out. You: yeah im not a big a fan of winter bc of the cold. Girl: yeah and...

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postr/StutterDec 14, 2022
40 points

Advice needed: Going on a tinder date, should I disclose my stutter up front?

Advice needed: Going on a tinder date, should I disclose my stutter up front? Hi everyone, so I am going on what is probably my first date and since the girl does not know that I stutter, I am wonde...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2022
1 points

Just tell them at the start of the interview that you have a stutter then after that just be yourself...

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commentr/StutterDec 13, 2022
1 points

Hey! I just launched the first Slack-based stuttering community specifically for professionals who stutter two months ago and it's totally free. We already have 140+ members and we talk about this exa...

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commentr/StutterDec 13, 2022
7 points

The most confident thing you can do is disclosing your stutter. You can start by saying something along the lines of “You probably figured it out, but I do have a stutter.”...

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commentr/StutterDec 13, 2022
6 points

> i don't want the interviewer to perceive that i'm too nervous or that i don't have any confidence. Try disclosing. There are a lot of posts about that on here >I have a job interview the ne...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2022
5 points

For real! I’ve had girls just respectfully wait for my stutter which is cool and nice, but not a lot showed that they liked it or so besides the minimum of respect. The latter are quite special :) And...

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commentr/StutterDec 10, 2022
34 points

Maybe she likes you and wanted to show you that you can stutter as much as you’d like around her, because she doesn’t care if you stutter at all :)...

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commentr/StutterDec 10, 2022
1 points

There is no harm in sending a polite text explaining your situation and why you feel your behavior was off. That’s not only cathartic for yourself as a stutter, but also for her given she might’ve fel...

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commentr/StutterDec 10, 2022
4 points

So when I first met my husband (who stutters) honestly it was a little confusing for me because he’d be friendly over text but not in person, and I wondered if maybe he just didn’t want to hang out wi...

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Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2022
1 points

I don’t see any harm in explaining your situation, likely would lead to becoming more comfortable having conversations with her and that’s always a good thing...

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commentr/StutterDec 10, 2022
4 points

Yea I understand your frustration, you should definitely tell her and explain about how your stutter sometimes make u feel she will most likely understand I don't think it will make it worse just keep...

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postr/StutterDec 10, 2022
28 points

I feel that I sometimes come off as rude because of my stutter

I feel that I sometimes come off as rude because of my stutter Last night I was at some friends house and made dinner. My stutter has gotten worse now (it varies alot), but speaking to them was fine. ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterDec 10, 2022
3 points

I can't imagine what you are going through as it must be very traumatic and overwhelming for you. As you may already know, sudden onset at your age is pretty rare, but I guess the silver lining is you...

Speech & StutteringCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Onset & Life-Stage ChangesSituational VariabilityDisclosure & Telling Others