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commentr/StutterMay 5, 2023
3 points

I guess it depends what they're making up for. My grandad didn't think he'd ever get married but he ended up marrying someone pretty, popular, and from a well to do family. But she had just gotten out...

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commentr/StutterMay 5, 2023
2 points

Also, thanks for not hating me for that comment lol. It's just hard to explain. There's a type of girl that's not popular who has blue hair and spends her spare time writing fanfiction and that's the ...

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commentr/StutterMay 5, 2023
7 points

Weird girls? Just because a girl isn’t popular doesn’t make her a weirdo. You say there’s no room for you to be picky but you already are. Which isn’t bad, you shouldn’t date someone just for the sake...

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commentr/StutterMay 5, 2023
3 points

Hang in there. I felt the same way about my stutter and then found my husband. He doesn’t care I stutter. But I get it. It’s so hard and if someone doesn’t stutter most of the time they don’t get it. ...

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commentr/StutterMay 5, 2023
2 points

Sure, maybe some weird girls. But truthfully I wouldn't fit in with them. I'm not actually very weird, I just stutter. I also feel like there's no room for me to be even slightly picky, which sounds h...

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commentr/StutterMay 4, 2023
6 points

You aren't looking for "most girls". You're looking for one girl. Remember that all people think differently. Grouping girls as thinking one way is completely wrong. Each individual girl will be think...

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postr/StutterMay 4, 2023
25 points

Nothing I do can make up for my stutter....

Nothing I do can make up for my stutter.... I've had people say to me that my stuttering is a good filter to weed out shallow girls and that someone will fall in love with the "real me." As if they're...

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commentr/StutterApr 28, 2023
10 points

Your feeling I believe is fairly common for people that stutter. What’s actually great though is that you have recognized the power of speech in a way that the average person likely hasn’t. The same...

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commentr/StutterApr 28, 2023
1 points

I'm 30 years old and still trying to figure that out. I have approached women a few times, but my stutter usually got to the point where they couldn't understand me....

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commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
2 points

Look towards people you’ve known for years. Those people will learn to not notice it as much. From there you can ease by with normal conversation, obviously the discomfort is still there but it’s not ...

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commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
1 points

You are asking how you approach a potential romantic interest. Not all males are romantically interested in females. The best way is to have a friendly “line” that includes mentioning that you stut...

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commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
2 points

Hilariously. Met one girl I dated in great fashion. Saw her in tesco and she was gorgeous and wearing a Fullmetal Alchemist T-shirt. Walked up to her and went to say Hi. Got stuck in a loop on the H,...

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commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
1 points

Here's my story! I am a doctor who stutters. And i have never had any problems with dating girls. Infact i believe i am confident enough to talk and date them. The problem arrives in tense situations ...

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commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
3 points

I do not think that blame is the correct word. Some people just do not want to be with a person who stutters. Its their preference, and they are not shallow because of this unless they are mean about ...

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commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
3 points

That is completely wrong. I know women who are attracted to men horribly scarred by fire, as well as men who are unkempt or in trouble with the law or are massive nerds. The delusion is thinking wome...

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commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
2 points

Not sure why you should proceed to insults straight away, considering the fact that you do not know my relationship status or who I am in general. It is obvious that people do not just fall in love wi...

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commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
3 points

I'm 27 and I've always been single. Not because I'm ugly but because simply I don't even try to approach a girl. I've choose to think about other things than girls....

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commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
4 points

Ngl there was a girl in school who totally was into me but I ignored her because I was too shy and awkward to talk to her...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
2 points

I cold approached my wife in the college cafeteria during a meal. She was curious enough to stay with me for over 25+ years....

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
2 points

It’s definitely bad at first. However, many of my past girlfriends have said they found my stutter cute. If she’s worth it, she’ll understand. If not, you’re not missing out on anything...

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