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postr/StutterJul 14, 2025
4 points

Please help

Please help I can say my perfectly normal by myself, and typically it’s been okay. I had an incident a while back where I stuttered on the phone saying my name and now it’s stuck and I have been petri...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2025
1 points

It sounds cliche, but really it is your anxiety that's going to mess you up in an interview, even applies for people who don't stutter. Also, remember it's just an interview, there's no guarantee you...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2025
1 points

I get what you're saying but how dare a woman expect a man to not be a piece of shit? Like do you want women to believe in the "all men are bad" stuff?...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2025
7 points

Yes, the 'secret' is out of the bag and a lot of the anxiety/pressure to speak fluently is suddenly reduced....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2025
1 points

I haven't seen anyone raise this point, but if you are quite fresh into this relationship with your partner who stutters, perhaps time is the answer. The more time you have been together, the less 'ch...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Experiential AssociationAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2025
1 points

As an extrovert and a stutterer, people ignore and make fun of me. Scientific research has proved that people perceive stutters as underconfident and anxious. So, even if you are confident like me, yo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2025
2 points

I have been through this nightmare a few years back. If it is too embarassing for you, talk to the professors to give the presentation only in front of them or see if they are okay with you skipping i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalSchool & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2025
1 points

My stutter isn't even that severe, but I was mocked a good deal. Sometimes friends who don't understand what's happening and that this is something I struggle with, but mostly strangers who get really...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2025
0 points

I wasn't going to say break up and you are a horrible person inherently for being bothered by something thats out of his control. I appreciate you wanting to work on it but that doesnt change your emo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
postr/StutterJul 13, 2025
2 points

Having a stutter makes everybody think you just some innocent little person and can’t do any harm (It’s a good trait to have) BUT GOD I HATE IT!!!

Having a stutter makes everybody think you just some innocent little person and can’t do any harm (It’s a good trait to have) BUT GOD I HATE IT!!! I’m completely sick of people thinking I’m nice, And ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJul 13, 2025
16 points

Wish I had fixed my stuttering way before

Wish I had fixed my stuttering way before My stuttering was the main cause of my anxiety growing up as far as I can remember. I pushed it off while trying my best to mask it. The stress all culminate...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterJul 12, 2025
7 points

I hate my stutter

I hate my stutter I have being stuttering since I was around 4-5 and I have always tried to hide my stuttering because I feel like people will judge, won’t want to talk to me and get frustrated at me....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2025
0 points

I really do apologize to you and everyone else here. I was feeling emotional when I wrote the post, not an excuse. I want to clarify that it's not the stutter itself that makes someone "bothersome" ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2025
2 points

I named the thing I want help with. The first thing I said is that I sometimes feel impatient. That's the main thing I'm wanting to work on. I want to feel more patience and compassion. In an earlier ...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 12, 2025
10 points

I'm very worried about college

I'm very worried about college I feel so worried about college because I have a severe stutter and especially the presentations because in my country we don't do presentations until college ,Can those...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2025
1 points

To me it's less about patience and more about urgency. Like when I say "please be patient with me" I more mean don't make me feel rushed. When I feel rushed to say something I'll definitely stammer mo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2025
2 points

Well you asked for input how can we explain when you won't explain why it bothers you so much? Is it just the repetitiveness of it happening? Is it embarrassing for you to see it or be involved? Is it...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2025
2 points

I got to know why you get overwhelmed by it or why is it so annoying? Im genuinely curious and I apologize for lashing out. This just really struck s cord because i also struggle with this and now im ...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2025
1 points

I think it sounds promising for a coffee date! Definitely give her the chance to reschedule. It's totally normal to have on and off days for fluency. There is no rhyme or reason to mine. It has noth...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Cycles & RandomnessAnxiety & Social JudgmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2025
3 points

I appreciate the resources you've suggested, thank you. Life of Delay by John Hendrickson really sounds awesome. As for the rest- I don't feel inclined to explain all the dynamics of our relationshi...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance