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commentr/StutterNov 3, 2022
26 points

Men everyday I think about what if "fluent people" just had even 1 hour to be In our shoes yea they wouldn't even last 10 minutes this shit is torture đź’Ż...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2022
1 points

I try to cope by seeing that it’s a buffer. Why would I want to associate with someone that doesn’t respect me ? It sucks, yes, but at least you’d find a few good people who stick around. I’m awfull...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2022
13 points

To some extent, depression, anxiety, feeling permanently misunderstood and frustrated will be things walking along side of you for ever. There is no way around that and I know it sucks. But it is up...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterOct 27, 2022
34 points

Do you ever have such a terrible interaction with someone it just fucks you up

Do you ever have such a terrible interaction with someone it just fucks you up Whole day is fucked and you just feel like crawling in a hole and disappearing...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2022
3 points

Thankyou these ideas are really helpful. it is better when you don't care. . When I get stressed out it gets worse, not being able to communicate makes me angry which makes me stutter more. I need to...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Frustration & AngerStress & Fight/FlightHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2022
1 points

Lmao yes! I’ve noticed when I’m upset or angry my speech comes out crystal clear✔️ must be because I’m more focused on how I’m feeling than what I’m saying...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2022
1 points

I bet you didn't stutter when you told him off haha. I was calling ebay customer service once and got really fed up. My speech was very fluent when I was telling him they weren't helping haha...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2022
-1 points

Your perspective sounds very, very twisted. Do not work off a list of medication to fix insecurity?? Get into the situation you fear and conquer it. Jeez....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
2 points

Thank you! You said 'social anxiety' and 'fear'. Let's call this: probability/evaluation of a stutter. Then the next question is, if perceiving stresses (by blaming the probability/evaluation of a stu...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating StutteringFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
8 points

I used to work in a call centre for an insurance company, when I started I had my stutter under control. It got worse with difficult customers , and got so bad I left that job. I had a couple of custo...

School & WorkSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerPhysical TensionFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
2 points

You're perfectly in the right for what you said, which wasn't even that bad imo. You explained to him, he ignored you and hung up then acted as if it didn't happen...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
6 points

Right. Honestly throughout my life most of my interactions have been pleasant. So this one just struck me as a surprise. I’m really not even the one to call somebody out like that or complain so when ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
17 points

I work for a relay service for the deaf or speech impaired and the amount of people who just hang up immediately or are just impatient is shocking. It definitely is in the minority but its still shock...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
36 points

Well done. That manager sounds like a real jerk. If you want you can try and contact his superior and let them know of his rude behavior....

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
1 points

I’m going to assume you come from a culture where it’s taboo for someone like you to acknowledge experiencing fear in a non-dangerous situation. Regardless, you are creating extremely complex workar...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
2 points

Like others have said, it should not let it affect you in your dream career. As for me, it did prevent me from getting the job that I wanted. As a kid, I always wanted to be a police officer. Recentl...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & AgencyFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
1 points

I understand exactly how you feel. It's not easy to get over the anger and frustration but trust me you have to realize that the ways you've been coping with your stutter haven't been healthy and that...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Frustration & AngerHope & MotivationPropositionality & Weight+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2022
1 points

Ah and the ole. You don't know what you're talking about because I said so one also. And how do you know what I've been through?...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2022
1 points

I feel ya. I had teachers that would always pick me to read aloud.. Knowing I stutter and couldn't do it .. Eventually I just stopped doing what they said. It was obvious they were just bullying me.. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2022
8 points

> every single thing i do is a decisnion of my stutter, not me. One piece of advice I regularly give here is to never let your stutter make your decisions for you. Allowing your stutter to dictate...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentFrustration & Anger+1 more