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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2016
3 points

I think part of stuttering is all this extra overhead pertaining to our anticipation and perception of words. Many of us are easily able to discern another stutterer (however covert). We pay a lot of ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2016
3 points

The same thing is true for me. Whether I have memorized what is being said or just talking in front of an audience, I speak very fluently. The problem is getting close to people and having individual ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2016
4 points

I work on eliminating avoidance behaviors and on trying to let myself stutter on the sound im afraid of. All that helps reduce the struggle and makes communication smoother and easier....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2016
1 points

Nice! I look forward to your vlogs. Yeah the events of today put me in a stuttering "valley". But it's the start of spring break for me so I'll take the day off tomorrow from everything, maybe go for ...

Causes & VariabilitySchool & WorkTherapy & Professional
Severity & FluctuationEmployment & CareerSeeking Therapy+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2016
3 points

Thanks for your comments! In the past I would ask teachers if I could do verbal/oral assignments 1 on 1 and one time I was allowed to make a documentary (in which I spoke fairly monotonously and tried...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2016
3 points

When you go to a restaurant and order the easiest thing to say even though you probably don't want it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2016
3 points

I agree, we shall keep pushing forward. It is really annoying when you have to order something you don't really want....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2016
3 points

I usually try not to let myself avoid speaking but sometimes when it's been a hard day things like this are nice :)...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2016
4 points

My friends think i really love "apple juice", i don't. In my language saying apple juice is very easy for me, every other drink is hard to say....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2016
6 points

You actually bubble in your order with the sharpie - like on a test! -then hand it to server with your name on it. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2016
6 points

Yes, this happens to me all the time. Usually when ordering food so i end up getting something different than what I wanted. Its very upsetting....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2016
21 points

I've lost count how many times I've said I don't know in response to a question I knew the answer to....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2016
8 points

Totally agree. I like to tell the bus drivers to have a nice day but I can't so I just say thank you. When they tell me to have a nice day, I can't even say "you too". It kills me every time. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
postr/StutterMar 15, 2016
14 points

Its the little things...

Its the little things... Got a haircut today and the total came to $13.99. When she asked "do you want to close the check at this amount" I felt like a $2.00 tip seemed appropriate. However, I could...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2016
5 points

It's the nature of the beast that you don't struggle when talking to yourself in an empty room. I'm a very severe stutterer on bad days, but totally fluent when talking to myself. My advice would be,...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMar 15, 2016
1 points

Any tips on getting over my mild stuttering?

Any tips on getting over my mild stuttering? A couple of years ago, my stuttering was kind of bad. However as I grew older, my stuttering naturally went away. Currently, I am a 21 year old guy. Now,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2016
2 points

Keep reading the poems in class! When I was in HS I gave several talks in front of my classroom. The first one was the worst, my knees were shaking, it was hard to start talking, I think that I take ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMar 10, 2016
22 points

That feeling of adrenaline after a presentation is amazing!

That feeling of adrenaline after a presentation is amazing! So I just gave this 5 minute technical presentation for my undergrad engineering course that I've been dreading really badly for a couple we...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnticipating StutteringBlocks & Stoppages+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2016
1 points

Are you in school? High school? College? During high school I avoided presentations at all costs, usually by doing alternative assignments or one-on-one presentations with teachers. In college I didn...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2016
2 points

I would recommend not doing this. Sure, it's an attractive option, but sooner or later in life your going to have to present something to someone. Giving presentations in school does seem dreadful, I ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal