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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2016
8 points

This is an example of letting your stutter control you, my advice is to try to not worry about it and say what you feel. Listen, you love your fiancee, right? You have all these words inside of you...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2016
2 points

My first job was at a library because I knew I wouldn't have to talk much lol. But eventually, I worked at six flags at rides. I interacted with people and I think that helped with my stuttering. Even...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2016
3 points

I felt like garbage like other stutters do, but I managed. My first job (while in high school) I didn't have speak much, I was shelving books. I mostly had to talk to people who wanted to know where...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2016
4 points

With my interview I didn't do anything to prepare for if I stutter, and I didn't say a thing about it. My philosophy was if they don't hire because I have a stutter, than they won't keep me when they ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2016
1 points

To be honest I haven't tried any kind of treatment. I just try to keep it on the down-low and I'm always in waiting for the awkwardness inside my head when I do it....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2016
5 points

Wow....... very good short. I'm actually taking ASL right now because I needed to take another language. I took Japanese when I was in high school and it didn't go to well with my stutter haha but I s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentPublic Awareness / Media
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2016
6 points

It's an interesting theory, but the problem with expecting pain when you stutter is it's only going to make you more afraid to stutter and therefore more afraid to speak. We already expect pain when w...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2016
1 points

woah, my grandma told me to do the same thing! well, it wasn't edgar allen poe. she told me that if i read to my stuffed animals every night i'd get over it. apparently she had a stutter as a kid too....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionGenetic & Family Factors
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2016
3 points

Very common. There are even names for the things you mention: world substitution and time pressure. Most stutterers can speak completely fluent when alone or to animals. For this reason I see stutteri...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
postr/StutterOct 17, 2016
8 points

My stutter is occasional. Is this frequent?

My stutter is occasional. Is this frequent? Hello guys, I'm pretty new to this sub, but not to stuttering. I didn't stutter as a kid and I started doing it when I was about 10-11 (now I'm 20). The thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2016
2 points

> I feel like I have behavior that makes me no fun to be around, like being quiet or not knowing what to say. I feel you bro. You have no idea how true this is for me. 99% of the time I am super s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 16, 2016
8 points

How should I handle when people mock me or make fun of me at work?

How should I handle when people mock me or make fun of me at work? I don't stutter much, I think it's more of a stammer when I can't get certain letters/words out. For example, I'll ask a question and...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterOct 14, 2016
22 points

Update: I have a presentation tomorrow and am very nervous. Does anyone have any tips?

Update: I have a presentation tomorrow and am very nervous. Does anyone have any tips? Original thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/579jxm/i_have_a_presentation_tomorrow_and_am_very/ ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & EmpathyPublic Speaking+1 more
postr/StutterOct 14, 2016
1 points

I hate it when someone suddenly asks you for directions and you have a hard time getting the words out

I hate it when someone suddenly asks you for directions and you have a hard time getting the words out [deleted]...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterOct 13, 2016
7 points

Social Anxiety/Awkwardness

Social Anxiety/Awkwardness I've had a couple months were my fluency has been great, but I am becoming frustrated. All the friends I made last year have started to drift apart from me and I see them h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/StutterOct 13, 2016
6 points

How can i get rid of my severe stutter, or at the very least get it to a point where it doesn't interfere with me

How can i get rid of my severe stutter, or at the very least get it to a point where it doesn't interfere with me Have had this shit since i was in 3rd grade or something and im 18 now. Its so bad tha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
postr/StutterOct 13, 2016
3 points

I have a presentation tomorrow and am very nervous. Does anyone have any tips?

I have a presentation tomorrow and am very nervous. Does anyone have any tips? I've been stuttering ever since I can remember. More recently I've developed some ticks and twitches to go along with it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2016
1 points

Yeah I do the same thing! If I'm telling a story I stutter less but if I'm asked something, stuttering is the very first thing I do :/...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & Weight
postr/StutterOct 12, 2016
6 points

My stammer/stutter is much worse when someone asks me a question.

My stammer/stutter is much worse when someone asks me a question. Does this happen to anyone else? For instance last week I was helping hand out papers to people and called out "Theresa" and then some...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2016
1 points

Depends what you're focusing on. I'd say the most important thing we can work on behind closed doors is your pace. When we're nervous we end up speaking really fast. So force yourself to speak really ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution