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commentr/StutterAug 4, 2024
3 points

Great post! **My summary**: (of the post) **Disabusing beliefs (especially the identity)** * The "ideal self" is shaped by societal expectations especially when it comes to communication * Society ...

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commentr/StutterAug 4, 2024
3 points

I totally hear you and agree! Though because I've made a career of writing, I find myself having to do public speaking sometimes, LOL. Which is kind of ironic. I've definitely had some embarrassing mo...

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commentr/stutteringAug 3, 2024
1 points

I was suffocating during the birth (it’s an interesting fact that my fiancee discovered during talks with my mum). Was it helpful to discover? No. But (for me) that’s confirms that trying to find so...

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commentr/StutterAug 2, 2024
1 points

Not every company will be friendly toward people who stutter. They dont even answear back as they said they will. People have different level of stuttering some have mild some have worse. Sales job is...

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commentr/StutterMemesAug 2, 2024
1 points

For me Stuttering made me an introvert. I still try to talk to people but i can,t i face a block and i give up...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2024
1 points

How do you make the approach? What do you speak? I can't think of anything and when I stutter i just close off myself to people and stay silent....

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commentr/StutterJul 29, 2024
1 points

I have noticed it also. I assume it’s because there is less pressure on the vocal chords and you speak calmly, which always is helping to reduce stutter - in my case at least....

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Situational VariabilityHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2024
2 points

I stutter less in my 2nd level i.e english🇮🇳 It's basically all about confidence, in which language you have less bad experiences, etc...

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Hope & MotivationHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2024
1 points

What you are saying is harmful. Alcohol, controlled substances, bizarre surgeries and “extreme drugs” will not actually help anybody. I’m sorry you think any of it can help. There are actually safe...

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commentr/StutterJul 27, 2024
2 points

That’s not…good…because his stutter has become mostly Covert, which means he hides his repetitions and replace them with panic-based blocking, strange eye blinks, and a significant amount of avoidanc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2024
1 points

What I suspect you are doing is providing yourself with a distraction—you are focusing on the accent instead of thinking about stuttering. That can work—at least temporarily. You are also almost a di...

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commentr/StutterJul 24, 2024
4 points

I kind of do this with my “customer service” voice. I stutter less at work for sure but I’m also not really speaking off on tangents and when I do I still have issues. If I stick to my “script” then I...

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commentr/StutterJul 23, 2024
1 points

Yes. It gives me a bit of control of people’s perception of my speaking ability and “weird tics”, and from my experience, not doing so is basically allowing some people to assume that I’m a nervous wr...

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Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2024
1 points

>if your stutter is noticeable in any way, they will know Yup. And people in general are very uninformed about stuttering, so when they notice you stuttering, a lot of them would assume that it’s at...

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commentr/StutterJul 23, 2024
1 points

Your understanding of “stuttering” is vastly different from mine. If your stutter is noticeable in any way, *they will know*. Additionally, if your stutter is covert and manifests as confusing pause...

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commentr/StutterJul 23, 2024
0 points

Couldn’t disagree more. Disclosing that you (candidate) have a stutter/speech impediment during or before a job interview (what this post is about) opens the ability for the interviewer/company to d...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2024
1 points

Bro, I wish I could give you a hug. I’m 35, going on 30yrs now of being a covert. My advice would be one, fuck everyone else, do you be you. Second, it’s okay to be fucked up and kinda broken, more pe...

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Hiding & ConcealmentHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
3 points

Never, it’s not important. What’s important is your commitment, work ethic, attire, and attitude toward the interview. Nobody cares that you stutter more than you....

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
2 points

I feel this. I’m an introvert but sometimes I wonder if I just trained myself to be an introvert out of fear of embarrassment from my stutter. My confidence is dead in the water, which I see as my fau...

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Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJul 22, 2024
12 points

RANT!!!! Feeling inadequate

RANT!!!! Feeling inadequate So I try to not let my stutter get in the way of me living life. I’m very outgoing with lots of friends & I still try to engage in conversation even if I sound like I’m hav...

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