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commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2023
3 points

I had a very similar experience for many years and have been able to move past it. This is the advice I got from SLP’s who specialize in dysfluency - basically do the opposite of what you are doing. ...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Fluency TechniquesDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterFeb 1, 2023
14 points

Needing some comfort and advice

Needing some comfort and advice Hello everyone i hope you are all doing well. It’s my birthday today and i’ve had a good ish day, my grandparents took me out for a meal today as it was my 21st birthda...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsTherapy & Professional
Frustration & AngerDisclosure & Telling OthersSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2023
1 points

You're not alone. For me its aslo a cknstant struggle from participating in class, just talking to people. To make it better, I recommend you to tell people directly that you stutter (friend, teacher)...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterJan 31, 2023
11 points

Hello, fellow stutterers, I have a question for you all. Do you think there has been enough research on the stuttering that focuses upon the responses of the stutterer to the society and culture around them? I know there have been medical, therapeutic research.

Hello, fellow stutterers, I have a question for you all. Do you think there has been enough research on the stuttering that focuses upon the responses of the stutterer to the society and culture aroun...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2023
2 points

When I was more anxious or for bigger presentations, I'd have a short line at the beginning letting them know I stutter and they will hear some pauses and repeating words. Puts it out there and addres...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2023
0 points

Only a person who has stuttered can help you. A stutterer who has gone through the same embarrassing situations that you have been through and worried about their speech 59 minutes an hour of every da...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Advice OfferedVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2023
2 points

You can try it yourself and see repeating your words won’t work. If anything, She got more fluent because *she disclosed*. His mirror talk is backwards too. You should look at yourself in mirror a...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureDisclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2023
4 points

Kudos to both of you OP! I think that it is great that you actually take your time and are willing to accommodate someone with a stutter. Public speaking is a frightening endeavour and public speaking...

Coping & AdvocacyCommunity & SupportSocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesValidation & EmpathyDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2023
3 points

I used to avoid a lot of speaking opportunities. If I can go back in time to when I was in college, I would not avoid my introduction, because avoiding that made me more scared of presenting in front ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionPhysical TensionDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
postr/StutterJan 24, 2023
63 points

Can we talk about how emotionally triggering speech blocks can be?

Can we talk about how emotionally triggering speech blocks can be? Just had a wonderful conversation with someone i haven’t seen in awhile. After effortless speech, the moment finally came…. She asked...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesShame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2023
2 points

I have an interview tomorrow as well. I’m 27. I’m going to send them an email. Hopefully it goes better than worse tbh....

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2023
5 points

I personally like to send an email beforehand letting them know, this is mainly for my own self confidence, so I know going into it that it won't be a surprise...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2023
8 points

I hate those introductions! So sorry you have to deal with those today. Whenever I'm struggling I try and get someone to introduce myself for me. Like if the teacher said, "Alright, and then next we h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2023
7 points

I usually wait until it happens and then just say something like, "sorry, I have a speech impediment." I know we're not supposed to apologize for it but I've found that it disarms people in the initia...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJan 24, 2023
14 points

Stuttered in class

Stuttered in class So today is my first day of classes for the new semester. I went to class today trying to hype myself up for the introduction part but when it came to my turn I just couldn’t do it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
1 points

Not sure what your specific question is. Dating is pretty much the same as for people that speak fluently. I guess I usually skirt around difficult sounds for the first couple dates and once more com...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Dating & RomanceAvoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2023
2 points

Thanks for this. I haven’t talked with the teacher about it. Agreed, usually if I say “sorry I have a stutter” the response is overwhelmingly positive....

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2023
5 points

First thing I usually (not most of the time) do is tell them that I have a stutter, then they're like oh yeah that's fine (like duh it better be, you can't turn me down for having a stutter lol). Ba...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJan 20, 2023
7 points

Should I tell someone who stutters not to apologise?

Should I tell someone who stutters not to apologise? Okay, so I have this online friend. I don't know whether she has an officially diagnosed stutter, but whenever she's particularly emotional (or tir...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2023
6 points

I have crashed and burned so many job interviews but after I disclosed my stutter, I can now focus on answering the questions....

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career