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commentr/StutterJul 2, 2023
24 points

Not currently, but I've been in two serious relationships, with one lasting almost 4 years. Now I'm single, but relationships are hard to find in general, even for fluent people. I'm sure plenty of us...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2023
12 points

damm i wanna know too. i’m too scared to end up alone too. never had a girlfriend in my life...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterJul 2, 2023
51 points

Does anyone here have a girlfriend or wife? I am verry afriad that i will always stay loney and i find it verry dificult to meet and i just wanna hear peoples opinion

Does anyone here have a girlfriend or wife? I am verry afriad that i will always stay loney and i find it verry dificult to meet and i just wanna hear peoples opinion ...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2023
1 points

Honestly just make him feel comfortable. Im 18M and have never had a girlfriend, so Im sure the fact that you still love him defientely makes him feel special...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2023
3 points

Only thing I can think of with my marriage is don't speak for him unless he asks you too. When my wife and I first started dating I had to clarify that for her. Part of my self treatment is just makin...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2023
3 points

Stuttering girl here (42 yo, married). Thanks for your courageous post. Sorry this is gonna be a super long self-helpy response - but I feel your issue so strongly. I’ve been wrestling with self-worth...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2023
3 points

I had low confidence dating in high school, but as I got older I learned there's a lot of girls who find it endearing. Like always, make sure the rest of what you present the world is as good as you c...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2023
10 points

Stuttering is not a deal breaker for a lot of people. I have a moderate stutter now but it was alot worse when I first met my wife. I know it seems like a lost cause at times, but the cliche is true...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2023
5 points

Approaching people is not easy! I feel like thats the hardest part since a hard stutter right at the start of even just saying “hi” makes me want to absolutely die. But after that initial intro, I’ve ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2023
3 points

See that's the thing i don't talk to women at all when it comes To building a Attraction (at least not anymore) the most I'll do is hi And bye...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
postr/StutterJun 23, 2023
27 points

Dating and Stuttering

Dating and Stuttering Any Advice on someone who's 23 Y/O who's stutterers but feels like he's not worth Dating cause he Stutters? I've been in a few relationships before but over the years my stutter ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceHelplessness & AgencySadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2023
1 points

Can’t say why specifically it’s different for everyone but what I can say is that because you stutter does not mean that you can’t talk to her/get her. It...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2023
5 points

Congratulations on your new job. However as we all know stuttering is a fluctuating condition meaning that you maybe lucky on the interview but keeping the job is a different story because there will ...

Causes & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Cycles & RandomnessSeverity & FluctuationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2023
1 points

Love that! Honestly the right person wouldn’t care, but finding the right person is hard haha. Glad things worked out for you...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2023
1 points

oh trust me i had been stressing about it a lot but the fears went away with time, im sure he wont reject you just because of your stutter. and sure, tell him if u feel like it. if he is the right p...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2023
3 points

Met my wife during a night of partying with a group of friends. I was a little more than little drunk and was stuttering more than usual. I just came and said that I stutter. She said ok. 34 years l...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2023
5 points

I had 5 relationships and everyone was respectful the last one said to me I love that you stutter that who you are, we can’t change that but we have to believe that we will find someone that will love...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2023
2 points

My advice like most of the replies I have seen is to let them know as soon as possible. The longer you wait, the anxiety will build up. Is this someone you may want to take things further with and pos...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2023
1 points

you know, sometimes i stutter when i talk to my girl, and honestly it doesnt seem like its a problem to her. we tend to look at ourselves from a critical perspective. a lot of people dont really mind...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2023
5 points

You just have to tell them. If they react poorly they obviously aren't good enough for a serious relationship. I've disclosed mine within the first few days of talking to someone, unless we meet in p...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance+1 more