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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2016
1 points

I loved reading this. For me I'm not a great writer but you really wrote that well. The thing that makes me most sad, for myself and you, is that we have all these ideas but can never vocalise them!!!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2016
1 points

I also struggle to answer the phone. I've started to just say 'Hi' rather than 'hello' because it's easier for me to get out (probably because it's shorter and more casual)....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterNov 11, 2016
7 points

Saphris and Propanolol helped me achieve near fluency

Saphris and Propanolol helped me achieve near fluency I've been working with a psychiatrist to try to reduce my stuttering through medication. The reason it is a psychiatrist and not a regular physici...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & Avoidance
Helpful Med OutcomesHarmful Med OutcomesSide Effects & Risks+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2016
1 points

I change up the sentence, it ends up semi-nonsensical and I usually still stutter. :'(...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2016
3 points

I can be such a bore to talk to because 50% of my vocabulary is 'ummm', 'errrr' or 'like' to be honest....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2016
1 points

Yup. Whenever I meet new people, I shake their hands, they tell me their name, and I go like alright, cool. And there is a second or two of hesitancy from the other person as they are expecting a name...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2016
1 points

There is definitely an immediate established fear when I come across situations where I know there's a pretty good chance I have to say my name. Hard sounds are among the worst for me, so of course my...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2016
3 points

I have issues saying my last name. It's Bober pronounced like sober. I can say it out loud to myself a million times...No issues. Introducing myself...always stutter on the B. It gets so bad and e...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2016
4 points

I read a thread like this earlier this past year on it. Person changed their name to something easier to say and just ended up stuttering on it later on too....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2016
7 points

You don't know that Churchill, Lenin, Biden and any of those guys had a better or worse stutter than you. The only time you see these people speak is during public events or speeches, you don't know w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic LifePublic Speaking
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2016
2 points

I don't stutter when I'm hammered but that's not really ideal since I have to be drunk to interact with other people....

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & Avoidance
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2016
1 points

I do this but I just leave out the parts of words that'd make me stutter and it no longer sounds like English....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2016
2 points

Sure, that's a big part of stuttering, I think. It can get rather confusing when you start juggling multiple variants of what you mean to say. Also, these avoidance tactics can become part of the stut...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2016
2 points

I absolutely relate. It is like the sentence a non-stuttered would structure is the freeway - super quick, convenient, and easy. Then I try to say that same thing....start on the freeway, and real...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterNov 9, 2016
9 points

Need to vent, it's so frustrating when people don't understand.

Need to vent, it's so frustrating when people don't understand. My stuttering isn't that bad the past couple months because of speech therapy, but it still fucking sucks. Social anxiety and tension f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2016
6 points

yeah but i usually counteract my stutters by saying 'ummm' before every sentence. like "ummm what is that?" so it seems like im just thinking of what to say but im actually using it to jumpstart my se...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2016
9 points

Yes, mid sentence i'll be like "oh shit, how can i change this sentecne so i dont stutter" then I fuck the sentecne up so hard that it doesn't make any sense BUT I DONT STUTTER SO AYYY LMAO...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterNov 9, 2016
7 points

Anyone know they're going to stutter and counteract it.

Anyone know they're going to stutter and counteract it. For me it's honestly certain words that I get caught up in, but it changes. I know i'm going to stutter on words like "and" while not being able...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2016
1 points

That happens to me too. I think practice and getting more used to these kinds of situations can really help. That can mean going on for interviews (even for jobs you aren't super interested in), or if...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
postr/StutterNov 7, 2016
17 points

I had a shitty job interview today

I had a shitty job interview today Not gonna bother you with a large paragraph. Basically: fear of stuttering took control over me and I was shy and short in my answers. I now feel like crap because I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more