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commentr/StutterJun 10, 2024
1 points

Oh god for me it was really bad at my worst I was about 8/9 and I started to write my notes down to show people instead of talking it got so bad my head hurt that much I needed glasses from headaches ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsMeds & Substances
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2024
2 points

It is easier to "accept yourself" if you don't overstretch (know your limitation) and often deal with consequent psychological trauma, IMHO......

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 9, 2024
2 points

I can totally relate. The worst is when other people, especially your own parents, think that if you just be “normal” or do things that “normal” people do, it’ll be fine. Well yeah, IF I DIDN’T have t...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJun 9, 2024
4 points

For me stuttering as a teenager (14M) is also a terrible expierience, Adults definetely have it worse, talking to anyone is frustrating and infuriating, its hard to socialise in school, talking to any...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying+1 more
postr/StutterJun 8, 2024
19 points

I’m not stupid

I’m not stupid I hate when people think you’re stupid just because you stutter. 🙄 ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJun 7, 2024
15 points

In dating scene after a long time….a vent

In dating scene after a long time….a vent After breaking up with my long term girlfriend last year I guess I was ready to get back into dating. Lo and behold I tried bumble and the first genuine perso...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentDating & RomanceHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 7, 2024
1 points

Same! I cringe inside when I listen to someone with a severe stutter. Mine is mild tot moderate now, but I remember how terrible it was when I was young. Cried myself to sleep almost every night back ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterJun 7, 2024
2 points

Thank you for your kind words ( they mean much more than the words I typed for me at this stage ) Yes , that is the large part I struggle with i.e. having a pity on myself that I have to let go o...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 7, 2024
1 points

I agree. Stuttering isn’t the problem, it’s the looks I get from people, it’s the laughs when I choke on my words, it’s the anxiety, it’s not being able to flirt. Stuttering itself doesn’t bother me a...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 7, 2024
5 points

There is no DSM-5 in the Scriptures. It is according to your belief that your truth unravels. And Scripture can fill in the gaps. For example, one thing I can appreciate about stuttering is that it n...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 7, 2024
6 points

I cringe when I meet people that stutter too. I feel their pain and their shame while it happens and I just feel too much… when I talk to normies I don’t have that empathy to worry about lol...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJun 7, 2024
3 points

I met one once. A guy from a different department at work that I'd seen around but never spoken to. We were having a chat on the walk out and he was stuttering really badly. Way worse than mine was. ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 7, 2024
19 points

I’ve met a couple. It’s deeply uncomfortable for me. Not because the person who stutters sounds weird, it’s cause I sound like them and I know how I sound....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJun 7, 2024
3 points

we're doing a theatre workshop this semester, and the auditions are today, but I'm too scared to tryout.

we're doing a theatre workshop this semester, and the auditions are today, but I'm too scared to tryout. I'm studying English, and one of my courses for this semester is Theatre Workshop. Here, they b...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPublic SpeakingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2024
2 points

1. Being ashamed of having a poor eyesight. There are no spectacles in the world 2. Trying hard to jump off a cliff or a tall building but your body is not allowing you to...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJun 5, 2024
6 points

I feel worthless and unlovable

I feel worthless and unlovable I’ve always found it so hard to cultivate friendships, much less romantic relationships. I met my crush on vacation, and we hung out for two days. I'm a socially anxious...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFriendships & BelongingHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJun 5, 2024
6 points

Does anyone here listen to their voice notes sometimes after sending it?

Does anyone here listen to their voice notes sometimes after sending it? My girlfriend listened to a voice note I sent her yesterday but couldn't make out some of it due to the wind blowing into the s...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2024
1 points

Congratulations on considering a stutter a “ruined life” and thus being the immoral piece of crap you’ve made yourself into....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Medicalization / NeurodiversityShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 4, 2024
2 points

I've been there. Early in my high school senior year, I realized a lot. Mainly that I was massively depressed, and that I'd probably carry that with me for a while. I didn't really have anyone to turn...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2024
3 points

Fair enough, I'd probably do the same. However, mine wasn't even a voice note, it was just a couple of snaps Back and forth before my self doubt crept in and I just completely ended contact with this ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment