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commentr/StutterSep 4, 2017
2 points

Anything nonverbal I excel at. Politely noting, that I did mention that jobs were harder for me because I stutter. If I held what you're saying to my head: "you aren't playing on a strong pitch to sta...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2017
1 points

Slightly on a tangent : is there any domain / area where you're am expert or better than most? If you're in a job where you're respected by default due to your expertise, it'll add to your confidence ...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterSep 3, 2017
17 points

Not being taken seriously because of my stutter.

Not being taken seriously because of my stutter. Nobody seems to take me seriously. I have a stutter on a scale of 1-10 is a 7. Long breaks and pauses and stammers during my sentences. Lots of hand ge...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2017
5 points

90% is a bit harsh imo, a significant amount of posts here are people trying to solve their problems instead of moping about them....

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Mindset shiftAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2017
2 points

Excellent. For anyone who read that and still prefers to hide from their problems, imagine if you could start and have a conversation with someone and not have to deal with an emotional penalty regard...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2017
-1 points

Sometimes people need to hear it from a realistic way rather than sugar coating shit all the time. Avoidance behavior is pathetic and should be outed and dealt with as soon as you can. It gets you n...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2017
3 points

Amen. Took a job in a pizza restaurant and I constantly ask my manager to put me on the start of the line as often as possible. I need to ask a lot of things, say their names, explain things to.peolle...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2017
13 points

This is great advice, however you should present advice is a less obnoxious manner and people will respond to it in a more positive way. Anyway, yes failing on your own terms is a truly important way...

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Mindset shiftAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2017
1 points

If I were Japanese... :D No, I'm Russian. We say "заикание" or "логоневроз" (the last one is often uses in medicine)...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2017
1 points

Are you Japanese? If so what's stuttering called in Japanese?...

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Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterSep 3, 2017
4 points

I'm actively improving and challenging myself. Something 90% of you guys fail to do.

I'm actively improving and challenging myself. Something 90% of you guys fail to do. So I've figured out that my stutter is mostly mental conditioning and constantly reminding myself that I'm going to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
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postr/StutterSep 3, 2017
0 points

Important information on stuttering; publish the root cause and experimental methods of stuttering; a reward of 10,000 USD is offered for refuting this argument

Important information on stuttering; publish the root cause and experimental methods of stuttering; a reward of 10,000 USD is offered for refuting this argument Stuttering has always been an outstandi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
postr/StutterSep 2, 2017
25 points

My stutter has gotten better! (update)

My stutter has gotten better! (update) So, I'm going to college this year (freshman) and my stutter has gotten better. I have been able to order at at restaurant or coffee shop with mostly little to n...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAvoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2017
22 points

This will go against conventional wisdom, but for right now, speak as little as possible. For the next little while, spend time relaxing/taking care of your essentials. Don't worry about speaking. Ge...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice RequestsMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2017
2 points

I can't even say that part without stuttering. I get stuck on "stutter". One time I couldn't even say "speech problem" so I settled for "social issue" lol...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2017
1 points

Well said my friend. I was just reading an article on stutteringhelp.org and they find that the strategy of pushing ourselves out of our comfort zones and into conversations can lead us to stutter and...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2017
5 points

Ironically, when I get stuck on something, I USUALLY can still say other things and speak just fine, such as addressing the fact that I can't get out what I WANT to say....

Anticipation & Avoidance
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commentr/StutterAug 29, 2017
2 points

You could use hand gestures/signals to indicate something is wrong. I do that sometimes, to show I'm still working on the delivery....

Anticipation & Avoidance
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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2017
3 points

Appreciate the advice and I'm glad that everything is going well for you at your new job! I do agree that practice makes perfect. I'm going to call back tomorrow and try not to even think about it. ...

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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2017
4 points

You're still running away. This gives temporary relief but now your anxiety is going to build up anticipating talking on the phone again. The only way to break the cycle is to stop running.... stop av...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift