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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2018
1 points

Names for me are definitely the worst yeah. My manager's name is Andrew so I struggle with that. As well as substitute words I'd say the main thing I do is to say 2 words as if it was one word. For...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2018
1 points

Out of curiosity what techniques do you use to get by? I mainly just rely on substitute words. The worst is when I can't use a substitute word i.e. a name or something....

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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2018
1 points

same here. it's strange, isn't it? >Could it be because I'm so focused on "winning" the debate and I know if I stutter it will lessen those chances, so I don't?? this is a good analysis. i was th...

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Propositionality & WeightAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2018
1 points

I'm actually in exactly the same position as you (albeit only at my job for a year rather than longer). I've block stuttered since I was around 15. It was worse then and now I've reached a stage whe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2018
1 points

I guess that's true.. I'll discuss it with the group next time I'll see them and who knows what'll happen....

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Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2018
2 points

>doubting my ability to convey my story in speech because of my stutter I dreaded ruining the delivery as well. But I realized it was more important to me to actually deliver something than to do ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2018
1 points

Me too! Except with Pathfinder, though. I tried working up to running a campaign a few years back, but I failed back then. The closer I got to actually delivering, the worse I felt about it. This ti...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionSituational Variability
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2018
2 points

>how I can make it the norm This most likely is not possible. Just so you don't think it's due to any failing on your part. :) Stutter tends to vary with context (or rather, what we're performing...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2018
1 points

Are you in our Discord? Because there's someone in our Discord who's like that too, with arguing specifically. We all have our little quirks and magical situational fluencies. It's probably good for...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2018
2 points

No. I’ve had therapy. Some good. A lot bad. I participate in a lot of self help. Who i am and how i see my stuttering is reflected in the journey. ...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2018
1 points

I think it should be. I had to look it up but I've definitely resorted to cluttering in the past to avoid blocking. It seems like there's a lot of overlap....

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2018
1 points

Sometimes it's because you know exactly what you want to say in those situations. You have to think quicker so your mind's initial thought matches what you try to say. Or it could be that the willingn...

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Propositionality & WeightAvoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2018
2 points

Very refreshing to hear all of these answers. I remember as a kid that even though everyone knew I stuttered, I would get made fun of quite a bit and so till this day I just try to hide it instead of ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2018
2 points

I've been thinking of DM'ing a D&D game for my friends aswell. I love to worldbuild and would be able to write out an entire universe if necessary, however i am doubting my ability to convey my st...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2018
2 points

What I do, is I don't bring it up. but when i have a hard time, like stuttering, i always say "ugh sorry I can't talk sometimes" and that's all and people understand, at least mine do. My coworkers ar...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2018
2 points

No so long ago - my focus was to be a fluent speaker. This mindset can set up to feel like a failure. Which can add to a shame spiral about your stuttering. My focus is now about being an effective ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2018
1 points

Ah, that is good advice! I’m trying to myself to just say what I want to, when I want to. A big part of being a stutter is taking control the stutter, IMO. At least that’s what helps for me. As anth...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
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postr/StutterFeb 26, 2018
3 points

mr manukha

mr manukha i have a degree in Sociology and Anthropology, but i'm facing problem in term of jobs. most of my degree jobs needs candidates who have good communication, i'm stressed i have no solution. ...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2018
3 points

Why not just show up in person? I was the same as you over the phone. My speech therapist told me the best remedy for that was to just keep doing it and get over it. You wont be able to avoid the pho...

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Seeking TherapyAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterFeb 25, 2018
1 points

[DISCUSSION] Should I follow up a job application with a phone call, even though I stutter horribly on the phone?

[DISCUSSION] Should I follow up a job application with a phone call, even though I stutter horribly on the phone? Hello! I just recently turned 18 and I'm trying to get literally any job at this point...

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