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postr/StutterOct 7, 2023
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Living on a cabin in the woods ALONE

Living on a cabin in the woods ALONE Hear me out. I don´t live on a cabin in the woods by myself. But I always think that it would give me tremendous benefits regarding my stuttering. My problem has ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2023
1 points

It only sucks when the person youre texting knows how you actually speak, it makes it harder to talk differently...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterOct 5, 2023
1 points

Holding Back

Holding Back Stuttering is holding back. Immediately you ask youself: ¿Holding back WHAT? ¿What is it we do not want to experience that we hold back with all our strength? I think is our feelings. O...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterOct 2, 2023
1 points

Speaking From The Heart

Speaking From The Heart It is hard to describe what "speaking from the heart" means. Maybe is better understood this way. ¿What is the opposite of speaking from the heart? Surely it is to **speak wit...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 1, 2023
1 points

Well, no one likes to take their work home with them, even if they love what they do. You are more than just your stutter, and she's more than just her career. I'd bring it up but without making a bi...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2023
1 points

I would highly recommend you to be open with your stutter just at the start of the presentation. I know this sounds scary as hell or even impossible in your mind now cause you hid it all year. But tru...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2023
1 points

I'm not a covert stutterer so unfortunately I don't have any advice. All I can say is when you are tired of being covert there are therapies out there that can help you stop hiding, face your fears, a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2023
1 points

yeah bro embrace it go out and act like anyone else but ppl who stutter think they have a disease and they dont act as they should once u break the ice with ppl ur life will get so much easier...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 28, 2023
1 points

Good luck buddy. I liked what you said at the end: "To become stutter free you can´t live like a person who stutter" It sound to simple to be true but for me, the simplier the better. It´s always the...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAvoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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"I've even heard that some actors don't stutter because they employ a different part of their brain when speaking to people on a regular basis—their creative side" Yes- Because you are performing as ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Roles & PerformanceHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2023
1 points

We've been friends for years, but I still avoid opening up to her because I just don't like her watching me struggle, even though she's okay with me stuttering all the time. Yesterday, after the misu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2023
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Also 23, and used to be the same. Stopped happening cause ill just say my thoughts out loud when I'm alone...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Experiential AssociationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2023
1 points

Me too, I'm starting to realize that my current fears are things that a teenager has already overcome or is overcoming. A new problem is starting to arise which will be: do I continue to hide my stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2023
1 points

**Me too, I'm starting to realize that my current fears are things that a teenager has already overcome or is overcoming. A new problem is starting to arise which will be: do I continue to hide my stu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2023
1 points

I'm not articulate enough to explain my situation to her and she misunderstood a lot of thing and ended up crying. She thought I didn't care for her and I f*cked up my wording so bad that I seemed emo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2023
1 points

What? Where have I said they should be ashamed of hiding it? It’s not a ‘fairy story’ either - it is possible to have a stutter and be outgoing and popular....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 22, 2023
1 points

So on point! I have been focussing on what to say more. I have been stuttering so much these days that I didn't even care if I stuttered. It was like, I'm gonna stutter anyway, so might as well focu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 22, 2023
1 points

The issue is your perception of the situation and yourself. I am a covert stammerer but someone I know who had a severe one was really popular and had a lot of friends. Stop blaming it on your stammer...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 22, 2023
1 points

Its the self-conscious part, and also that people think im weird cause of How i talk so they dont reach out themselves either...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 22, 2023
1 points

May I ask why you eat alone? Do you want to eat alone or are you doing it because you feel self conscious about been a stammerer, and think you will be shunned because of it? Just asking...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking