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postr/StutterJul 31, 2024
6 points

Does anyone else have physical pain due to their stutter?

Does anyone else have physical pain due to their stutter? From my experience my jaw, mouth, neck and throat are constantly hurting, sometimes badly because of how I need to physically strain myself to...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Physical TensionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2024
9 points

Disclosure is an empowering method of reducing the shame someone is *already* feeling. Disclosing is also a message that “I am/have overcome a challenge.”...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2024
3 points

You have to do things that address the actual problem. Silent blocking and fear have nothing to do with being able to articulate the word. It’s based in shame of others hearing your repetitions, so ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2024
2 points

Same thing happened to me. After he made fun I just told him straight up it's the one thing for me that crosses the line. I'm too insecure about it. Thankfully I have good friends who respect that...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2024
2 points

I had a similar situation where I had to do training (actually it was training to eventually train others) over a call with multiple people all who were also doing the training. It was where we had to...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & CareerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2024
3 points

Wow.. Brute force I like it. I do agree that it won't affect much but I do wish I didn't have to embarrass myself every time I have to make a call...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJul 28, 2024
18 points

Finding a job

Finding a job I am currently an engineering student,I took an academic leave last month due to the huge fee arrears that had piled over time and now things seems very bad.I have been looking for jobs...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career+1 more
postr/StutterJul 27, 2024
3 points

Stuttering with an accent

Stuttering with an accent Hey!! Does anyone else hate their accent to? I have a regional British accent I feel like having a strong accent and a stutter is probably the worst combination. Like people...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJul 27, 2024
31 points

I am terrified of getting a job

I am terrified of getting a job I (20F) have never had a job before. I've done volunteer work but never held a "normal" paying job. I've overcome a lot of fears, like presenting, and I enjoy talking ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2024
1 points

I’ve considered that as well! Anything to help her. I am worried about self esteem and bullying. The last time it had gone away for a whole year so I know she was disappointed it returned. Thanks so m...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterJul 25, 2024
4 points

It’s killing me

It’s killing me So it’s been since my young age that I still hang out with the same few friends (only 2) and now we’re getting older we just joined university so both of them are starting to have a n...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFriendships & Belonging+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2024
2 points

I will share two things. For reference, I feel my stutter is improving and becoming moderate. I have a blocking stutter. My insecurity about talking has driven me to work harder and be better than my...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2024
9 points

Because that would be fucking weird 🤣🤣 Imagine as a cashier singing everyone their total..At that point it’s better to stutter. At least MOST will recognize a stutter as a disability and won’t ju...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Situational VariabilityShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2024
4 points

"The way she wants to speak" you think she's choosing to speak like that seriously? And BTW it's not funny to us. Because you are laughing at us not with us. It's horribly frustrating of course she is...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2024
5 points

I never understood why people say this. Singing everything would be much more embarrassed than stuttering. Most people know what it is to have a stutter and are nice about it, but if I sang everything...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Situational VariabilityShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJul 23, 2024
6 points

Practicing on a word that I stutter on makes me tired mentally

Practicing on a word that I stutter on makes me tired mentally Thinking that techniques like opening my mouth bigger etc just makes the fear worse. Practicing on difficult words makes me feel so tir...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & EmbarrassmentTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2024
2 points

I definitely think stutters (me included) notice it so much more. Many people I have met and hung out with for a while have said they didn’t notice until I told them. I have a radio show/podcast and...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2024
10 points

Thank you, I often feel sad about how my friends were able to express what they want but I can't, when my professors ask me questions l, even though I know the answer I would say I don't know, because...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencySchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterJul 23, 2024
35 points

I think I'm gonna give up my dreams

I think I'm gonna give up my dreams Growing up my family didn't have a lot of money, so education was my only hope. I was bullied and laughed at because of my stutter in highschool, I thought universi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic Life+1 more
postr/StutterJul 22, 2024
6 points

I'm think about going to speech therapy

I'm think about going to speech therapy Hi everyone, I am a stutter and I am thinking about going to therapy. My stutter is not extremely serious, like I think I stutter at most on 30% of all of the w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more