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commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
2 points

Not anymore. Spent 40 years as a closet stutter. Was successful at hiding it even in the military. So exhausting....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
2 points

I did modeling and some acting. The whole experience always seemed surreal to me while in the moment so that really helped me to not stutter. I basically don’t stutter if I’m extremely confident almos...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Roles & PerformanceHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
14 points

Me too. It’s called occult stuttering. I think it’s almost worse because it surprises unsuspecting people and then you see that look of pity and horror on their faces. I even had one horrible experie...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
7 points

Everytime I stutter with someone it’s usually “I had no idea until just not” . And I’m always baffled bc I think I stutter a lot but apparently not....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation
postr/StutterSep 17, 2024
11 points

Any "hidden" stutters here?

Any "hidden" stutters here? I mean... People think you are not... But you are. What is your story? ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
0 points

What you are saying it’s hard to follow. Stuttering happens at a young age, when you are still at home. So didn’t your mom know you had a speech pro? Or you suddenly developed the condition once yo...

Parent & CaregiverAnticipation & Avoidance
Early Concern & OnsetHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
0 points

Sure, but come on, your mum! Covert stutterers all have had a time before they decided to hide their stutter. Their mums must have noticed something at that time. Unless a mum was not around for some ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceParent & Caregiver
Hiding & ConcealmentEarly Concern & Onset
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
10 points

- initiate discussion with me on how i would prefer to approach presentations, oral exams, etc (i had always been the one to initiate) - my stutter gets especially worse when i have to read out loud. ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
7 points

NOT let me weasel out of presentations. All through middle school, my teachers would always ask me if I wanted to skip making presentations to the class, or if I wanted to do them privately do them af...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
3 points

I found as I got older it became easier to mask my stutter, I don’t know if it’s because I’m better at masking it or because I’m not as anxious and energetic as I was when I was younger (when my stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
3 points

My close ones know, but the people I work with or those I rarely talk to don’t know. I wouldn’t say I’m hiding it but mostly I just don't know how to bring it up so I mask it. Although, in my experien...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
13 points

I'm a mild stutterer so a lot of people don't know I stutter since I mask it quite well. However those closer to me realise I stutter...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
postr/StutterSep 17, 2024
12 points

Are you a covert stutterer and if so what’s your experience of this?

Are you a covert stutterer and if so what’s your experience of this? ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
3 points

I understand that. Mine is too severe to hide from people close to me, but I definitely mask it in front of new people and do the same thing. I hate it because it often make me seem dumb but it's defi...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
2 points

Haha I always just pretend to forget what I'm about to say when I feel a block coming. I do this with both new people and my close friends since my stutter isn't too severe and I mask it from most peo...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
3 points

I do that too but mostly with new people who don't know I have a stutter or when I'm just tired of it. In most conversations during the day, I lie at least once that I don’t know something or that I’v...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
0 points

The reason people who stutter are afraid of public speaking is because how we perceive others are going to perceive our stutter, NOT because we’re scared of stuttering ourselves. This isn’t unique to ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
2 points

edit from the bottom: fuck, I rambled sorry. But yeah, just keep working at it. Play video games with friends or nobodies, take on customer facing work, literally talk to random people you mee, fuckin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
11 points

I remember the feelings you are experiencing with your stammers at 15. My stammer is still extremely bad at 47. It is a bad question to ask a stammer is how they are on the telephone. OP, how bad or g...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
0 points

I'm 48 and have stuttered my entire life. I think I've only met 2 people my entire life who also stutter. Anyone else who told me they used to stutter, did so only as children and was probably a phase...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation