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postr/StutterApr 14, 2023
1 points

Everyone laughed

Everyone laughed I(20M) worked my ass off to get into my dream University only to get humiliated here. I am a studying Computer science, I had to give a presentation on an app I made. I spend sleeples...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2023
2 points

Lashing out at the one community of people who actually understands is not going to help. And fyi you can’t be a Navy seal if your vision isn’t 20/20 either, and I don’t think people with imperfect vi...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2023
6 points

Dismissing someone’s feelings toward their stutter or the way they feel in social situations with a stutter as simply having an inferiority complex is silly. We all know it’s a bit more complex than t...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & AgencyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
2 points

I will tell you this. I'm 23, been stuttering since probably 7 years old. It has diminished a lot, massively, over time. What it was, for me? Self-confidence. Real self-confidence, because I'll tell o...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
1 points

It sure is difficult. As far as feeling like shit, I absolutely know what you mean...trust me. It's difficult to gauge when (it was really a transition over time), but I stopped feeling like sh...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2023
3 points

Do you have any hobbies or sports? Go for a run, go lift some weights, start practicing martial arts, do something to get the anger out of you...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
1 points

Hey can you not call me a bitch in a support sub where people are trying to help you? I’ve been EXACTLY in your shoes and come out the other side. If you’re just angry and want to rage at something or...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2023
1 points

tf u mean "you're too young to be bitter" "RoLl wiTh tHe puNcHes" bih i had to practice years in front of the mirror just to say my own name, cant roll with the punches with that... i had to drop out ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & AgencySchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
1 points

Not a competition here either I just assumed your stutter wasn’t as bad as mine, I apologize for assuming I knew your stutter even though I didn’t know your stutter and you didn’t know mine sorry abou...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & ConcealmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterApr 11, 2023
4 points

The vicious cycle

The vicious cycle The pressure/ fear to not appear slow, unintelligent builds up soo much anxiety and nervousness, 99times out of 100... you stutter anyway and feel embarrassed. Then you descend into...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
7 points

Yeah man, I don't think I would have been okay with that. I also don't think I'm in the right mind for support.... I get militant. I'm sorry you had to deal with that....

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
2 points

I'm a pessimist too but really instead of hating yourself use that hate as fuel. Hit the fucking gym to get confidence in your life. Use that rage you have for having this curse of a disability to sel...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Frustration & AngerMindset shift
postr/StutterApr 10, 2023
8 points

Can yall be more aggressive?

Can yall be more aggressive? I was wrong to fall down the optimism guilt hole. Can yall be less aggressive lol....

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger
postr/StutterApr 10, 2023
7 points

Was any of you passive aggressively bullied?

Was any of you passive aggressively bullied? I never was really bullied. But I always felt like I was an easy target. And people/friends would just out of nowhere say stupid/rude stuff to me that I d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+2 more
postr/StutterApr 10, 2023
24 points

Vent

Vent There are days that I just want to kill myself, because Stuttering has taking everything away from me and there are times I'm like HELL no, those bastards have no more right that I to live a happ...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerSadness & HopelessnessSuicidal Ideation & High Distress
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
18 points

Only last week I was ordering a sandwich from a shop and the man behind the counter told me to “get it out” when I struggled to say mayo. I hate this shit sometimes...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Frustration & AngerHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2023
1 points

Honestly he sounds like he's not the type of person to be hanging around with anyway. I get he's going through personal stuff but he shouldn't have reacted like that once you explained yourself....

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2023
1 points

Exactly lol. I had a younger neighbor who stuttered badly and although i always listened to him very patiently but deep down i was hating it so much....

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Frustration & AngerValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2023
10 points

I feel this. I decided many years ago this is not my problem. It's other peoples problem who are impatient, inconsiderate and/or just plain assholes....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2023
2 points

Yes correct. I once had a teacher in high school who mocked my speech, the audacity of that person!, she should be the one to tell the class that bullying is bad!, 😢yet there she was, mocking my spe...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger