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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2018
1 points

Clinical Research Associate (CRA) here. I own my own small business (really small, like me and my wife small). We do contract work w Sm biotechs to lg multinational companies to help them manage their...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2018
2 points

I feel this. They can go through a whole presentation and life with perfect fluency, but they still feel bad about their speech! I love speaking and volunteering, and I never let my stutter stop me. B...

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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2018
1 points

We're friends, so whenever they make fun of my stutter I know it's not in a mean way. The thing that annoys me the most is when people who can talk won't talk. They are too nervous to read out loud an...

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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2018
2 points

Oh yeah I was doing a group presentation and one of my friends was stuttering during the presentation. Of course he said "I'm catching your stutter"....

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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2018
1 points

You know when people stutter during presentations and other similar things solely? It’s that. Circumstantial stuttering basically. Just during presentations or other anxiety ridden tasks. To clarify...

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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2018
5 points

Its been super awkward for me when I have run into another stutterer. It’s only happened a handful of times in my life, but every time it’s this weird moment when they first speak, and I realize they’...

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postr/StutterNov 8, 2018
4 points

Festivals.

Festivals. Anyone else go to music festivals and meet people that automatically think you’re fucked up because you have a slight stutter when introducing yourself? Kinda frustrating but we have a laug...

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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2018
1 points

Speak like you were explaining something to the other person, gesticulate a lot (be very assertive). Use your hands, it may sound absurd but what you have to do to stutter less is focusing less on stu...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2018
2 points

Hard Rs really get me too, i rarely tell anyone about reddit unless i feel comfortable with it coming out.. idk it's weird like i can feel wether or not ill stutter when i want to say something so if ...

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commentr/StutterNov 7, 2018
2 points

Yep, I do exactly this and I never stammer. I wish it was like that irl. ...

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Situational VariabilityAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2018
2 points

My mother tongue is Cantonese but I grew up speaking English. I tend to stutter a lot more in Cantonese than I do English, but I suspect that part of the reason why is because I'm not as fluent and it...

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commentr/StutterNov 5, 2018
3 points

I speak 3 languages, arabic, french, and english. Usually, when I can't say something in one of the languages, i switch to the other. I also live in a country that it's more common for people to be bi...

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commentr/StutterNov 5, 2018
4 points

When I took spanish in highschool I would stutter less at first, then it eventually went back to my normal amount. Kind of how when I talk in a fake accent I can actually be really fluent for a little...

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commentr/StutterNov 5, 2018
2 points

No, probably because of my stammer I would rarely approach a woman outright. I had much better success in meeting women through groups, school, or other activities. Meeting girls at a bar through a ...

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Dating & RomanceAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2018
1 points

Had an embarrassing moment in high school. Tried to explain myself out of a false accusation ... ended up being a launghing stock. No need to argue if you really don't have to....

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commentr/StutterNov 5, 2018
2 points

Online dating has definatly saved my ass. Sure, it's superficial and all that crap, but it beats trying to approach a woman in a bar or a nightclub. How big is your stutter? I'm somewhat of a function...

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commentr/StutterNov 5, 2018
2 points

Stuttering is as much an avoidance disorder as it is a speech disorder. You should get in touch with the American Institute of Stuttering in NYC - they know what's up and can put you on the right trac...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2018
2 points

Going in with the mindset of not stuttering will only add more pressure and if that doesn't make you stutter more, it will leave you feeling worse about yourself if you do. The best advice I can off...

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commentr/StutterNov 4, 2018
1 points

I'm glad you're going to work on it. My suggestion is work on it only a couple times per day. You're can't stop it cold turkey and trying to do so is usually a recipe for failure. Work on it a few tim...

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commentr/StutterNov 4, 2018
1 points

Well now that I've realized I use those words I can make a conscience effort to take those words out of my vocabulary. The only downside is with out those words I probably will stutter,stammer, and ge...

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