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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2024
6 points

That’s why I NEVER tell people about my stutter. I generally stutter less around people who don’t know I stutter. This shouldn’t be confused with the fact that we stutter less around people we know an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2024
6 points

The realization that I don’t stutter when I’m talking to myself alone was a big deal for me. It showed me that my stutter was rooted in my sense of self, specifically how I appear to others, and what ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2024
4 points

I used to believe all of that, until I realised it’s just not true. The more you live in hiding, afraid to stammer openly, the less you speak and your mind catastrophises everything. This thing is, ev...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2024
-1 points

The issue is that, without additional context, 99% of people have no way of knowing that a brief unexpected silence is *part* of a speech impediment. OP pushed past his block quickly enough so that ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2024
3 points

Completely the opposite in my experience, not telling them you stutter puts pressure on yourself to not stutter, which just leads to more anxiety and blocks for me....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2024
1 points

I’m an early childhood mental health professional and a person who stutters. I wish I was taught to effectively disclose. Disclosing is *to benefit the PWS*, to try to eliminate possibility of engag...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2024
2 points

Did you tell them you have a stutter? I personally never do and just let my speech speak for itself. Besides, telling others often makes us stutter more because it becomes an expectation....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2024
1 points

That's the latest I've personally heard of. As far as being worried, unfortunately that may depend on you. I can imagine how distressing it might be. The only advice I can give you is what is give any...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2024
0 points

He described classic textbook covert stuttering. The fact that he didn’t stutter when he called the guy out (you block when you are trying to hide it but the second you stop hiding it, you get fluent...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2024
0 points

You even called it a “grim smile”, indicating he did not understand what was going on. In fact, when someone pauses before saying their name,people may think something is medically wrong with you, an...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2024
1 points

Yup, I can almost guarantee that I'll stutter when ordering food. It's kind of become a joke with my friends whenever I'm ordering the food and I'll them to watch as I tell them exactly when I'm gonna...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2024
1 points

I have a terrible stutter, mainly interiorised (covert) and comes in the form of severe blocking but I work for a film production company and regularly have to do voice over work, videos, meetings and...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterSep 22, 2024
18 points

Guys I’m having very trouble making friends plus ordering in coffe is really hard for me and is making depressed and making me lonely without friends

Guys I’m having very trouble making friends plus ordering in coffe is really hard for me and is making depressed and making me lonely without friends I want to know if someone is in same place and how...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Friendships & BelongingHiding & ConcealmentLoneliness & Isolation+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2024
1 points

Great job. I work as a teacher in Norway, and I stutter, but uses all my energy on hiding it. Talk to your teacher about it he or she will surely do all their best to help and cheer you on....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2024
0 points

I felt like I was tied up in chains and no matter what I did I couldn’t escape (say what I wanted to say) it’s exhausting being a person who stutters !!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/overcome_stutteringSep 20, 2024
2 points

Yes 100%. I can barely speak on the phone at all. To the point where if my family is around I'll just try to get them to speak for me bc it's easier for me & the person I'm calling..with being put on ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2024
0 points

Lee Lovett‘s methods have changed my life. Everything from reading out aloud when you’re alone (which improves your fluency habit), never forcing blocks (to weaken the stutter habit), positive affir...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2024
1 points

Well, that's the overly casual version. Basically I'd been working only 15 hours a week for many years due to my mental health issues, then my company shut down so everyone lost their jobs. That was D...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Helplessness & AgencyHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2024
1 points

Blocking on your name and other unswitchable words is an extremely common aspect of someone who is a *covert stutterer*. Fear of others hearing your repetitions is the root cause of blocking. If y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentBlocks & Stoppages
postr/StutterSep 19, 2024
13 points

What causes you to speak improperly?

What causes you to speak improperly? I'm listing what I've searched so far and what causes me to speak improperly.. 1. Contracted larynx (most people can't hear what we're saying) 2. Breath loss (t...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Blocks & StoppagesLoss of ControlHiding & Concealment+3 more