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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
1 points

Literally almost started crying earlier because all day yesterday people kept telling me to speak up, or they'd ask me to repeat myself. Today I got told that I was "yelling." Maybe this doesn't happe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
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postr/StutterApr 20, 2023
3 points

I stutter and I'm in a pickle

I stutter and I'm in a pickle Hello, My name is Robert (21), Been stuttering since my first Words, I doubt it's from birth. Short backstory incoming. When I was 2, my dad was an alcoholic , he wou...

Causes & VariabilityMeds & SubstancesTherapy & Professional
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postr/StutterApr 20, 2023
2 points

What are some tips and strategies that have helped you manage your stammering or stuttering?

What are some tips and strategies that have helped you manage your stammering or stuttering? [removed]...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2023
1 points

I, too also stutter and my father said he stutters but now, it's kinda faint for him. I don't know how he did it but when he talks he seemed to look like someone who just can't verbalize his thoughts ...

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commentr/StutterApr 19, 2023
1 points

Like hell I'm facing stammering every minute every day Im struggling to Speak communicate interact like other people but I can't… people just laugh at my stammering and humiliate me no one Understands...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2023
2 points

i was getting trained for work had a question, now imagine your trying to hold in a sneeze and yk how ur head like kicks forward and down a little, on a bad block i do that basically. The trainer said...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2023
3 points

Your dad is frustrated. It’s ok to be frustrated because in his mind he so badly wants you to not have this interfere with your life. All due respect to your dad but he’s handling it like an idiot tho...

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Frustration & AngerTrauma & PsychologicalSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2023
3 points

Nah it’s only when he’s like in a bad mood or when he tells me to tell me someone phone number and I stutter while saying the numbers . But my mum doesn’t care she’s patient and I try not to talk a lo...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2023
5 points

When I was a teenager we had company over the house and I was trying to explain something. I was having a really tough time and after I was mostly finished my dad laughed and said, "it's like he's spe...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2023
5 points

My dad likes to argue with me whenever my moms not home, i go head to head with him everytime, but one time i proved him wrong like tenfold, showing his contradictions and literally pulling up receipt...

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Frustration & AngerSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2023
5 points

You have every right to be upset. If there is anyone who should be patient and supportive it should be your parents. Your parents are acting like you're stuttering just to annoy them. I'd recommend f...

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commentr/StutterApr 16, 2023
4 points

I get angry cause mostly my own my fam telling me to hurry up but I just get angry and give the speech bout if it's hard for them to listen imagine how i feel and to listen to what I say that helps me...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Frustration & AngerSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
7 points

Sounds like he’s an impatient man. My brother used to get soooo frustrated when I would stutter or block. He could barely stand there, he would get red and start shaking almost. I also think he may ha...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Family Support & ConflictFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
9 points

No, it's a fucked up thing to say. Though I don't think he means to hurt you and it probably his shitty way of cooing with his own feelings about your stutter, possibly feelings of guilt or something,...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Family Support & ConflictFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
12 points

> “ when will this guys stutter be fixed “ Not very funny. Not even attempting to be a joke. It's like when your friend says, "oh it was only a joke". I think your dad has some toxic views whe...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Family Support & ConflictFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterApr 15, 2023
13 points

parents always devalued my stuttering

parents always devalued my stuttering Stuttered severely since I learned how to speak. But they always said that it will disappear when I grow up. I lived in a village and it wasn't possible to get a ...

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Family Support & ConflictTrauma & PsychologicalFrustration & Anger+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
5 points

We need to normalize calling people out for shit like this. I get the "oh did you forget your name?" thing a lot. My response is "no, I did not forget my name. I stutter, but thank you for pointing it...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
3 points

Youve made multipule posts in the past few days with the literall same idea... Stop the defeatist attidue, its not helping you... Yes its harder to socialize, however you arent incapable of it. You ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
2 points

I've had this happen so many times. Don't let them see you tremble or cry. Instead get angry and stare them down. Something about anger improves my fluency. Then you can turn the entire energy in the ...

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Frustration & AngerStress & Fight/FlightSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2023
24 points

Fuck. I'm so sorry. That sounds terrible, especially for grown ass adults acting like children. I highly recommend you approach the professor later when he's alone and explain your situation. Even if ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & AngerHope & Motivation