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postr/StutterDec 2, 2023
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"Acceptance" has different definitions, what do you think of this?

"Acceptance" has different definitions, what do you think of this? So sometimes when people say we should accept our stutter, they mean we should take pride in it. But for others, acceptance is just ...

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Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2023
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You probably just want to relax and home and not think about it after a day of doing all that. It sounds like you're making progress and maybe if you tell him a little bit about performance even if he...

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Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 29, 2023
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Susca (PhD) states: >No, I didn’t have covert symptoms during my enhanced fluency period, but you did hit on something: acceptance that I no longer stuttered. In the second 25 years of my life it ...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 29, 2023
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Everything you do for the purpose of trying to not stutter only reinforces the fear and adds more unnatural junk to your speech. What I do is try my best to not pressure myself and let it come out as...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2023
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As someone mentioned, correlation doesn’t equal causation. It could be any number of life or neurological changes other than testosterone. It can be completely random. You’re likely biased because you...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2023
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**In my viewpoint:** Drawing from research studies, it seems that neurogenic stuttering is primarily linked to neurological causes, while persistent developmental stuttering tends to exhibit neurolog...

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commentr/StutterNov 26, 2023
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Just read about that. "MIND READING" is it call on my book. Once you notice the thought (mind reading) you can replace it for another more supportive to the goal of fluency. I think replace is better...

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Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2023
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When I told someone I stuttered it did worsen as well. It was like a set the stage for “when is he going to stutter?” However a friend of mine told people, he was like yeah sometimes stutter, deal wit...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2023
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It’s not something that works right away, it takes time, you have to work on it, it takes practice cause it’s a mental game, you have to be ok with your stutter and that’s really hard for a lot of peo...

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Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2023
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So this probably isn’t what you want to hear but it’s what you need to hear, I needed to hear it when I was younger. You said that your stutter is “sabotaging your social life.” it is, but only becaus...

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Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2023
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I hope you see her. Avoiding something you really want because of fear is almost always worse than doing it, even if it goes poorly. Because at least you did it and that is always a step against fear....

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commentr/StutterNov 24, 2023
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Public will likely always be a way more daunting place. I get the same with people I’ve just met who I don’t have any sort of relationship with. It’s that fear of other people’s perception. Confidenc...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2023
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What I figured that helped myself in improving my mood (this is not related to the speaking practice itself but just the internal emotional part) is to write out the thought patterns that occur on a r...

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Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shiftAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2023
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Well, THAT struck a chord in me! Thank you for your words! Be kind to yourself guys and don't leat fear disable you from playing your game!...

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Hope & MotivationMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2023
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The good thing about restaurants is that they need to take your order even if you stutter. I was uncomfortable at first conversations when I was younger, but in my experience, if you give yourself a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2023
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try not caring about what other people think about you. This will help you (as it did for me) a lot in your life. People are assholes, that is clear. So just let them be and do your thing....

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Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2023
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normal ? wats normal ? normal is basic and ful of lies and hatred # riggedsocietycorruptsociety # vampiresociety b dfrnt b u 🌀🩵☁️...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2023
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Thank you, and yes I've met ppl who were just amazed of the jobs I was doing with a stutter. I worked in retail and fast food. I started trying out other positions,like register and drive thru to pus...

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commentr/StutterNov 23, 2023
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I'm currently in my second year of college. First year I met basically nobody except a couple people in a club and some group projects but nobody I would consider a friend. Over the summer I went to...

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commentr/StutterNov 23, 2023
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Hi there, I just graduated college and I've been there. you're a fresh person, not a lot of confidence, trying to fit in in a new environment it can be difficult and that affects your stutter. just t...

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School & Academic LifeMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception