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commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2019
1 points

Im very shy guy do you think its because of that Because I feel uncomfortable near beautiful women and then I only think about being shy and forgot that I nEe d to think before I say something and th...

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postr/StutterFeb 8, 2019
1 points

How to stop suttering?

How to stop suttering? Hi ​ So basically I am able to speak, but at random moments (especially when a beautiful girl is near, or is speaking to me) my brain blocks and whatever I say is s...

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postr/StutterFeb 8, 2019
17 points

How to overcome this

How to overcome this Hey guys, I'm 25 been stuttering my whole life, and to be honest it's never really been a problem for me. Back in my country I have really good close friends they never tried make...

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commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2019
2 points

Men the worst thing you can do is not talk to people and run from reality. I'm 25 and been stuttering my whole f...g life, I know it's sucks. But trust me there is no beter way to cure this then pract...

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commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2019
1 points

It's annoying but I stutter through what I want. My friends know the deal and do their own thing until I'm done. I often have to have the server come right next to me though to better understand me. ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2019
1 points

How about simply accepting the fact that you'll stammer/stutter? Can't comment how effective that will be for you, but often, just the mere acceptance of fear is enough to get rid of it....

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commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2019
3 points

Speak more slowly and maintain your confidence. It makes you feel better about yourself, which allows you to have more courage and not mess any words up. Always speak slowly if you feel like your stut...

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commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2019
3 points

M8, I feel like the main reason why we stutter is not because of something physical or muscles being tense. It's because we are afraid of stuttering. Because i am 100% sure i am not alone on this. Whe...

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commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2019
2 points

Yup, I do occasiaonally get my wife to do the talking when I just can’t be bothered battling through certain words and interactions. The important thing to me is to know that if I did have to, I shoul...

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commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2019
3 points

This is really great advice and something I try to follow but sometimes there's a word I just KNOW I won't be able to get out so that's when I ask my husband to order for me. Having a super supportive...

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commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2019
2 points

Yeah it’s quite funny describing a cheese burger with out saying burger. Yeah ccccccan I hhhhhave that mmmeat disk with cheese. And yeah I’ve been going to speech therapy and it has really helped my ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2019
2 points

>rehearsing my order about a thousand times in my head the anxiety just keeps building up and I know I won’t be able to order Rehearsal likely won't help you anyway. If you haven't tried it alread...

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postr/StutterFeb 7, 2019
22 points

Ordering food with a stammer

Ordering food with a stammer I’m a 16 yr and I’ve been stammering since I was about 3. I go out with my friends quite often and we go to places to eat quite often. whenever I’m standing in line and re...

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commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2019
1 points

Yeah most of my friends know I have a stammer and I keep it quite well covered up as well by pausing before speaking and just taking a deep breath ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2019
1 points

True, it's mostly in our minds. Negative experiences contribute to make the point of view we have on stuttering worse, and we end up worrying about it which results in anxiety and so on. You can see...

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commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2019
4 points

If I could I would give you a big hug my friend. Tomorrow I have to give a presentation to about 20 people, all managers in my company. I am already thinking what words to avoid and how. Stressful. St...

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postr/StutterFeb 6, 2019
19 points

I need urgent help regarding stuttering

I need urgent help regarding stuttering Hello, I apologize for the bad English because I speak Arabic - I have a Stuttering when I talk, I know I have to challenge society, people and myself and cons...

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postr/StutterFeb 6, 2019
10 points

Does speech therapy work and is it worth pursuing? What can I expect and what are your experiences with speech therapy?

Does speech therapy work and is it worth pursuing? What can I expect and what are your experiences with speech therapy? I'm 22. I've done some speech therapy here and there and sometimes it helped, ot...

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commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2019
2 points

I remember doing my English speaking gcse and it was recorded In front of the whole class, I also spoke about my stutter and nailed it, got the highest mark just like you. It's the best feeling ever. ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2019
1 points

I struggle with this too, I have to prepare myself but even then it still comes out like uhhhh yes sir ...

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