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commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2019
1 points

I've stuttered all my life, but didn't develop speech blocking until I was almost 18 years old. It was really crushing because I thought the stuttering was bad enough. I don't know a lot about recov...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2019
1 points

Is there anyone else who is the total opposite? I find it very difficult to say my name or do short responses but I can breeze through a conversation any day....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2019
1 points

A long conversation is just a bunch of short conversations. Try to look at it that way. I feel like the biggest problem with my stutter is avoidance. I have to keep on my self not to avoid talking. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2019
1 points

I find that I do the same thing. I feel like my stutter has conditioned me to have short responses in conversations because I dont want to stutter. But now I just force myself to say what's on my mind...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2019
1 points

i think there is certain "lateral movement" we can do -- for example, i've begun to alter my stutter so it's more repetition than severe blocking, it feels like it is more productive in terms of commu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2019
2 points

very true, in my experience, the things you dont do because of fear of stuttering, these are the things you should do intentionally, this really helps, the fear in the mind is the main reason, and sp...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2019
2 points

I got into a lot of trouble substituting words when I was younger - In my opinion it's better to tackle it head on....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2019
2 points

i've done this and also used to bite the inside of my gums. it helps for a little but it made my stutter crazier and i needed to train myself to stop doing it because it began to really hurt (like my ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2019
6 points

Sometimes I can get away with saying "jew" instead of "did you". Say it quick enough and no one can tell the difference. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterFeb 15, 2019
10 points

Blocked on “did”

Blocked on “did” I can’t start a sentence with “did”. I feel so dumb lol how do you guys get around this. D words are my strongest blocks but I don’t think I’ve ever started with “did” my whole life...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2019
7 points

When i were at high school, i ran for Vice President, i didnt win but i was part of student government ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
postr/StutterFeb 14, 2019
55 points

I have a stutter and am running for student council

I have a stutter and am running for student council My stutter first appeared when I was 11 years old and has stayed with me ever since. I use to let it control me as I was afraid to order food at res...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2019
3 points

SLP (Speech Language Pathologist) here, so I can only offer that perspective. Although I have experienced some social anxiety in the past, which made it difficult/ impossible for me to talk in certain...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionAvoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2019
1 points

I've been hiding how i felt about my stutter for years and years. My dad used to stutter a bit but he overcame it somehow...I wish i talked to him about it before he passed away three years ago, i'm ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2019
2 points

I do clench my jaw and will do hand gestures - like enunciating with my hands will help. I started a new job where I have to be very precise and articulate. This is actually helping me as it’s forci...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2019
2 points

Aaaaalllllll the time. Just general comments about it, pointing it out when I don’t do it, and ways I can “stop” my stutter. ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Stigma & BullyingAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterFeb 13, 2019
2 points

Formal evidence of stutter for University?

Formal evidence of stutter for University? I have stuttered for the past 10 years (not from birth). My university course currently has multiple modules where there is an assessed verbal presentation ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2019
1 points

Hey, I had a phone interview for a programming job. I literally could not speak, I blocked on 1 work for over a minute and hung up the phone! Then they called me back and said I could type the answers...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerAccess & Rights
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2019
2 points

One thing that I have found in my interviews that worked well is confidence, finding your “trigger” sounds (mine is words starting with H and sometime F) and avoiding them when you get nervous or feel...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerAvoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
postr/StutterFeb 12, 2019
18 points

Biggest interview of my life this weekend

Biggest interview of my life this weekend Hi everyone. I have a really important interview this weekend for a scholarship to my dream school, and my stuttering has been getting me down. I wrote about ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more