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commentr/StutterJun 16, 2025
3 points

Fellow stutter here. I get that. I've been there, but it doesn't last forever. Not all girls care about speech impediments. Just because a good man. Be respectful, kind, and genuine....

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commentr/StutterJun 16, 2025
7 points

Not all women are going to judge you on your stutter. I've met women who find it 'cute' or 'adorable', their words not mine. Anyone who doesn't want you because of it, probably isn't worth having in ...

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commentr/StutterJun 16, 2025
1 points

A mixture of sheer ignorance and not giving a fuck lol naa but for real I've developed a mentality of not caring if I stutter and that's half the problem. It turns into a cycle of self doubt and insec...

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commentr/StutterJun 16, 2025
1 points

Funnily enough when I see that face I get pissed and say what I want to say without enthusiasm and a disdainful look(and don't stutter at all)...

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commentr/StutterJun 16, 2025
1 points

I like it, I feel someone respects you if they continue the eye contact when you block....

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commentr/StutterJun 15, 2025
3 points

Hi I’m 26 and a nursing student. I heavily recommend going to the stutter support groups. 3 weeks ago I was pausing when I would introduce myself and it helped me grow my confidence regardless of my s...

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commentr/StutterJun 15, 2025
2 points

Agree with others here re therapy (not for speech!). My stutter plays up when I’m tired, excited or anxious…so 95% of the time LOL. I’ve tried anti anxiety medication and it didn’t really help. I’ve f...

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commentr/StutterJun 15, 2025
1 points

Agree with others here re therapy (not for speech but maybe to talk about that asshole ex…good riddance to him!). My stutter plays up when I’m tired, excited or anxious…so 95% of the time LOL. I’ve tr...

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commentr/StutterJun 15, 2025
3 points

My stutter is sort of similar in that it’s at the beginning of certain words and once I pass the hurdle, I can speak pretty freely but otherwise I’m just silent and can’t get any sound out at all. Is ...

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2025
1 points

Yup, only a person with a stutter would understand... People think it's nothing, letem live it.... different story.. All stutterers are some really strong people 💪...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2025
1 points

Stuttering is not the end of the world. Don't let stuttering stop you from living....

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2025
1 points

I’m a 19 year old girl and I’m also proud of you! What you did was very brave, it doesn’t matter if they didn’t clap for you. I’m glad you still found light after a “bad” moment. You should treat your...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2025
1 points

It's a funny conundrum because if people don't understand it, when stutterers say something as an aside, they typically go fluent easier, then as they get back to what they were saying, they may stutt...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2025
1 points

That is absolutely my attitude as well! I'll do everything they ask to the best of my ability and if I stutter then I stutter. I don't care how much it sucks either, I'll get it done. Yeah the drill s...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2025
2 points

Rather be a confident stutterer than an under confident anxious stutterer. All the best dude....

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2025
3 points

I don't think it's worth disclosing, it plays into our own heads more than theirs. I believe we should not be thinking about it in the slightest but I do agree we can do this while stuttering. I've ...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2025
8 points

What a nice story, you should feel proud of yourself for not being afraid to express yourself even though you stutter. Keep on doing that and it/living with a stutter will get a lot better over the ye...

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postr/StutterJun 13, 2025
77 points

I am a 20 year old girl who stutters

I am a 20 year old girl who stutters So our farewell event just ended, and I wanted to share something that felt big for me. I stammer. And today, I participated in a ramp walk as part of the farewel...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2025
3 points

I would like to piggyback this because I was also in the military. I did a stint in the Navy as a helmsman on an Aircraft Carrier. I also just retired from the government at 50. I have a moderate to h...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2025
1 points

What broke the cycle for me was realizing it doesn't help thinking about it at all. Eventually when i forced myself not to because I had an inkling that it would get me closer to how I feel at home (...

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