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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2016
1 points

Delivery driver. It's a good job not only for somebody with a bad mouth but for those with social anxiety, autists, and generally anti-social people....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 27, 2016
2 points

Thoughts on 'throwing yourself in the deep end' via a new job?

Thoughts on 'throwing yourself in the deep end' via a new job? I currently work in a restaurant as a waiter, and for irrelevant reasons I'm considering leaving. This requires a lot of speaking - but a...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2016
1 points

I understand that point of view, and as a person who had a severe stutter for a good majority of my life (I'm 29 now & had a severe stutter well into my teens & early 20's), I can't help but f...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterDec 18, 2016
2 points

I have engg. vivas starting from tomorrow. What should I do?

I have engg. vivas starting from tomorrow. What should I do? Hi there, I always have had stutter since when I was 4, which have become worse since 4-5 years. Previously, I had low stutter, but now I'v...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFluency Techniques
postr/StutterDec 16, 2016
18 points

My Story and How My Stutter Improved (a bit long)

My Story and How My Stutter Improved (a bit long) **My Story** Stuttering began to take control of my life starting in about 8th grade. It was very severe throughout all of highschool (getting progre...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFluency TechniquesQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2016
6 points

I'm just concerned that I'll be on one of my "bad" days and will mess up an interview because of my stutter. I'm mostly looking for advice on how to deal with general stuttering and interviews. I'm in...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2016
1 points

I never wanted to before, but once I mentioned it during an interview it was like all the pressure was off. If you can take even a fraction of the anxiety out of an interview, do it. ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2016
1 points

Stop caring so much can be part of the answer, but it's about as useful as telling someone to stop being nervous or stop being human. We can develop ourselves to care less, but that usually comes only...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2016
3 points

And the funny thing is that they never had to deal with this discomfort, so for them the solution is just "relax and you'll be the most fluent person possible"! I get all the good intentions coming to...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2016
3 points

"Anyone else ever feel as if their mental state considerably suffers from stuttering?" This is the main impact of stuttering for me. The mental state suffers incredibly. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2016
3 points

I find that I don't really care what most people think. I'm far tougher on myself stuttering than others are. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2016
1 points

A little late to reply here. I also struggle with pronouncing the first syllable of the first word in a sentence; after that, it's relatively fluent. One thing that has helped me tremendously has been...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical TensionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2016
3 points

Follow up in person if you need to, interviews are important. A couple of times it helped me if I wrote things down if I had to talk on the phone. It didn't make me fluent but it helped a bit with an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2016
2 points

I'm the opposite, I'm worse in person than over the phone. Any reason for why you are fearful about explaining yourself over the phone? Hope it goes well btw!...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterDec 15, 2016
5 points

Freaking out about a phone call I need to make tomorrow

Freaking out about a phone call I need to make tomorrow Had an interview Tuesday. Did great, few stammers but nothing a few deep breaths didn't fix. So Wednesday rolls around and I'm checking the ring...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & NamesAnticipating Stuttering
postr/StutterDec 14, 2016
7 points

Starting to stutter at 18

Starting to stutter at 18 I've been quite stressed out recently as my dad is currently being prosecuted for assault against another man. I haven't spoken to him for the past 2 months. I have started u...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & PsychologicalFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2016
1 points

All we really have on the stuttering side is speech therapy. I'd recommend tackling both the stutter and the anxiety at the same time. Because they are so connected any improvements in one area will m...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2016
1 points

I'd like to talk to you, in fact i would very much like to have a friend that i can relate to. Stuttering ruined my school life and now that school is over i'm stuck home 24/7. I play games to pass ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Loneliness & IsolationAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2016
1 points

I just started lexapro but I haven't experienced anything yet besides upset stomach so I'm taking half the dosage for the first few days just get used to it. This may be in my head but a couple of tim...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Medication InquiriesAnxiety & Social JudgmentHarmful Med Outcomes
postr/StutterDec 13, 2016
5 points

Anti-Anxiety drugs after therapy

Anti-Anxiety drugs after therapy Hi, Long time subscriber and poster. Also, long time stutterer :). I was diagnosed as a severe stutterer some 13 years ago and underwent therapy. I am not a moderate-m...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Medication InquiriesAnxiety & Social Judgment