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postr/StutterOct 11, 2024
3 points

A type of social anxiety/protecting myself

A type of social anxiety/protecting myself While I am in social situations I always make a stern face and act like i don’t care, actually I do care. It's like I don't want people to interact with me....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2024
0 points

Have moderate stutter, mainly blocks and prolongation. If I don't bring up my stutter, people tend to avoid me. That really hurts cause I felt like I did something bad/wrong. Been working on stopping...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentLoneliness & IsolationAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2024
3 points

Stuttering is physically and mentally exhausting. I spent 2 years communicating by writing on "Post It" notes because of my stutter. I also spent another 2 years only speaking in a whisper (because...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2024
1 points

Don’t worry, brother. All that matters is you fucking did that. I remember I had to present for my final, and no one knew I stuttered because I managed to mask it so well in the smaller group discussi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2024
2 points

No devices helped me. Only turning on headphones with white noise. Then I can read without stuttering. But only read. I still can't hold a conversation. On a forum, I read a review from someone who g...

Coping & AdvocacyTherapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAssistive DevicesHiding & Concealment+1 more
postr/StutterOct 10, 2024
3 points

Device recommendations

Device recommendations Hi, I’m a 28-year-old who has been stuttering for most of my life. Because of this, I’ve had to settle for jobs below my qualifications since I struggle with interviews. Despit...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterOct 10, 2024
8 points

How you stutter vs. how you feel

How you stutter vs. how you feel Let’s talk about the severity of your stutter vs. how you feel about it. Especially those of you who get by (in terms of speaking fluency) reasonably well in your eve...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2024
1 points

Same, makes meetings a pain. I usually just advertise that I stutter, then just let it come....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterOct 10, 2024
6 points

Talking to Siri

Talking to Siri Do you guys stutter when talking with Siri? I do and i am looking forward for apple to release the AI voice assistance; i feel like i can practice my talking with her. How do you guy...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2024
6 points

Tapping in as a covert stutter - my wife and family obviously know and can tell but most strangers would probably assume I'm as fluent as any other person. I have a managerial role and have to speak ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2024
8 points

I agree to some extent, but have grown tiresome of dredging up the past and coming across as self-absorbed. I put it out there merely as a warning that I may speak differently if we are about to begin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2024
3 points

I’m not saying avoiding it is good, but forcing yourself to speak more when you clearly struggle isn’t helpful either....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2024
18 points

Firstly ['covert stuttering' ](https://stamma.org/about-stammering/stammering-facts/covert-stammering)i.e. passing as fluent is a thing. I had a severe stutter, but over a long time and a lot of speec...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2024
2 points

I'm a support worker for adults with learning disabilities. I never set out to do this work, but I've been doing it for 15 years now and it's worked out pretty well for me. I help care for all kinds o...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterOct 9, 2024
76 points

I can’t stand people who claim they have a stutter when they don’t

I can’t stand people who claim they have a stutter when they don’t I’ve had a stutter and ADHD my whole life. It’s been so severe that I’ve attempted to take my own life twice, and after the second ti...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSuicidal Ideation & High Distress+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2024
0 points

I suppose it's a good experience in a sense that it demonstrates how others see and react to us when we struggle. No sane person is judging or hating us for our stutter. It's just an inconvenience and...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2024
1 points

First lesson I learnt when trying to overcome mental health issues stemming from my stutter was to stop putting lot of weight on other people’s judgments, and opinions. I learnt to stop letting extern...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2024
7 points

I work at a library! I'll complete 2 years next week and just my luck that I started at the busiest library in my area (800 people a day with two schools right next to us) I won't lie and say I didn...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2024
1 points

generally yes, but I don't think that's the appropriate way forward for a lot in their stutter journey. for me, practicing in private with friends and family helped more often in future public intera...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterOct 8, 2024
15 points

A job opportunity at the Library

A job opportunity at the Library 17M, I work at a library starting in November but I fear I’ll fuck it up or maybe I’m just insecure. Lately I’ve been using Apple notes and showing people what I want ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment