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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2017
2 points

I don't know you. But if I were to guess, the anxiety over what they think of you is worse than if you just knew they think you stutter or are dumb. So remove the anxiety. Just accept that they thi...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2017
3 points

Yeah i guess so, i just wish i could appear to be ''normal'' when i talk, i constantly think of what others think of me. :/...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2017
3 points

Dealing with authority figures in situations where you're under pressure definitely makes things worse, it only amplifies any anxiety you already had about just having to talk to someone else. The be...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stress & Fight/FlightHope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2017
2 points

Im glad you Can see where Im coming from. Yeah my stuttering did get worse in the first few weeks, But once i let my body heal and get a month or so into it, i notice that i get much more fluent. My c...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Helpful Med OutcomesHope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2017
3 points

That's awesome! I agree fully. Glad to hear it's going well! I don't have many tips for presentations other than trying to be excited. Nervousness is common amongst all people so I accept being nervo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2017
5 points

1: I still stutter but not to the same degree of severity. I am generally more comfortable which lends to less stuttering. 2: For the most part, yes! There are situations where I have self-doubt and ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2017
3 points

i take it with caffeine and it's a nice boost, non-habit forming. and yes, like most of us here, stuttering has been a lifelong struggle, and the real trauma came from the nastiness of fellow classma...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2017
3 points

I am happy for you mate! I just spent some time with my Aunt who is like my second mother and because of this fact I tend to stutter alot around her since I dont want to let her down (i am sure you ca...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2017
4 points

Why is people there so close minded ? It isn't the first time a stutterer get good results with NOFAP. Actually I feel like my stuttering is tied in some way with my hormonal level. Tryed NOFAP for so...

Meds & SubstancesIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMar 5, 2017
0 points

PLEASE TRY NOFAP

PLEASE TRY NOFAP I don't care if you think it's a cult. I'm on day 20 on Nofap and my fluency is much better, my self confidence is better, and my anxiety is starting to go down. Nofap is the most dif...

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Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2017
0 points

I don't understand the hate?? I'm on Nofap day 20 and my fluency is MUCH better, everytime im on a long streak my anxiety gets better, my stuttering gets better, and my self confidence gets better. An...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2017
2 points

I found that going on nofap for a month helped with my anxiety and self confidence tremendously though. Which then equaled to less stress when talking especially to girls. ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2017
2 points

No - be honest with yourself first. Accept it makes you nervous etc. but have the belief that things will change and get much better. The nerves will go away! ...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2017
1 points

Yes, but should I deceive myself? My stutter is not severe, but it makes me nervous. But, thank you for your advice. ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2017
1 points

It's that thin margin between overthinking about what you're going to say coupled with the anxiety that blocks are coming up versus free-flowing speech when you're comfortable. It's hard to explain bu...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentEnergy & Biological RhythmsRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2017
3 points

I stutter most on the phone and like you when I'm introducing myself. Larger patterns of influency (over days or weeks) happen when I'm sick, tired, stressed or (tmi) PMSing....

Speech & StutteringCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Repetitions & ProlongationsEnergy & Biological RhythmsAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMar 1, 2017
6 points

When do you stutter less and more?

When do you stutter less and more? For me I stutter the most when I'm stressed, introducing myself to new people and when I feel insecure/uncomfortable. Less is when I talk to someone I trust and kn...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2017
2 points

Ayyy lmao I know that feel so well. Yeah anxiety is a factor for sure. But "anxiety" is a blanket term for a LOT of different thoughts/ideas/patterns. One of these that I think of is the idea of being...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2017
3 points

True! It definitely is distinct for every individual. But in that example, isn't feeling uncomfortable about your fucked up teeth really just feeling uncomfortable about your appearances? Or feeling s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2017
1 points

I just like thinking, I'm an introvert. So when I go to start a conversation it starts well and then I run out of things to say. Anxiety kicks in and the rest is history ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring