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commentr/StutterMay 4, 2017
1 points

I see myself as being fairly smart, pretty fun to be around, but am very shy when I first meet people. It takes a little bit for me to get out of my shell and to be comfortable around others, but I'm ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2017
10 points

I see myself as a guy who is smart (relatively ofcourse) and inherently outgoing and funny but unable due to my stutter. I do have positive qualities but those are outclassed by my stutter in my head,...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 2, 2017
8 points

I think I just blew it

I think I just blew it I just received a call from Lowes about a job. The employer saw my application and called me to setup an interview. Here's where things went down hill: As soon as that phone ra...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 30, 2017
5 points

Any tips/advice on socializing in college?

Any tips/advice on socializing in college? I just finished my second year and I've hardly made any friends, I find it difficult to approach and talk to people. I've joined clubs and societies too, but...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterApr 29, 2017
4 points

I have been talking to a girl I really like for the past few days constantly and she wants to Skype. I keep giving her excuses for not being able to answer the call but in reality I'm just too anxious about my stutter.

I have been talking to a girl I really like for the past few days constantly and she wants to Skype. I keep giving her excuses for not being able to answer the call but in reality I'm just too anxious...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2017
9 points

Definitely. Its a blessing and a curse, at least for me anyway. Doing this creates immense levels of anxiety when having to introduce myself to people because I *know* I can't trick my brain and pick ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2017
1 points

yeah, i'm currently undergoing a course of it now for the next few weeks! Yeah, that's exactly what i've found, I let the fear of talking to people control me, or the fear of having them judge me ...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterApr 27, 2017
9 points

Just fucked up a job interview by stuttering. I have another interview coming up.

Just fucked up a job interview by stuttering. I have another interview coming up. Hey Everyone, So this is my first time reaching out to any community about my problem. I'm actually surprised one ex...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2017
1 points

Hear you That must have sucked if someone close to you just straight out tells you to stop stuttering in despise. No one has told me hatefully to stop stuttering, maybe once a year i get the calm dow...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterApr 26, 2017
5 points

Approaching women..

Approaching women.. Guys, I am 29 M. Have been stuttering since I was 5. Every time I approach women I stutter, and they think that I am not confident or something and they immediately lose interest ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 26, 2017
5 points

Subliminal Messages For Stuttering

Subliminal Messages For Stuttering I was always amazed at my ability to read out loud when no one was listening and then start talking to someone or get on the phone and start stuttering again. Thus...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2017
2 points

Basically this is a test, those who say yes will have a hard time in real life to get rid of stutter, those who say no are already ahead. >I remember thinking, many years ago, that if I didn't stu...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2017
5 points

I know this is not the answer you are looking for but the fear that you describe is probably much worse than your stuttering problem itself. It sounds like you are anticipating stuttering and difficul...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride+1 more
postr/StutterApr 26, 2017
10 points

One of the worst speech blocks I have ever gotten

One of the worst speech blocks I have ever gotten I go to an online school because I am so afraid of going to public school because of my stutter. I have many, many horrible memories of randomly getti...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2017
2 points

I'm happy you found something that worked for you. I may have to seek professional help for my anxiety because it seriously controls me. Have you done speech therapy as well?...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2017
3 points

This is exactly what happens to me. The anticipation of having to speak and messing up really makes me anxious. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2017
3 points

For sure, I was diagnosed with anxiety a couple years ago. I still use a ton of avoidance techniques but the doc prescribed me some beta-blockers and they seriously changed my life. they let me keep c...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2017
6 points

Definitely, whenever i am in social situation i develop intense anxiety based solely on the thought that i will eventually have to speak, stutter and embarrass myself. If i didn't stutter i probably w...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating Stuttering
postr/StutterApr 25, 2017
8 points

Anxiety

Anxiety Hello my fellow stutterers. I'm 25 years old and I've been stuttering since I was a kid. I had speech therapy when i was in 4th grade but it honestly did nothing for me. I have a hard time wit...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2017
1 points

I think it's so interesting how for people who stutter, one of the most difficult things for us to say is our name. This should say a lot and I feel is worth reflecting on. In addition to this, examin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesPhysical TensionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more