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commentr/StutterSep 16, 2017
2 points

Thanks for the reply. I think my discomfort with being unable to say my name becomes really obvious and might push the other person away more than my stutter itself, so I'll definitely try what your t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2017
3 points

yeah, i hear ya, i had a very similar experience in college. i remember my roommate during my 1st year making fun of me "behind my back" (even though i could hear it from time to time), it really high...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterSep 15, 2017
9 points

Trouble making friends in college when I can't say my own name

Trouble making friends in college when I can't say my own name I recently moved across the country for school. I've been able to develop a decent management of my stutter in a lot of situations, howev...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2017
3 points

Good luck! I stutter and worked at a call center. Scripts helped so much. I practiced them a lot at home. My stutter is worse when I am nervous so I make sure I am prepared for most questions. I...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Fluency TechniquesAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2017
1 points

Fine. Assuming everything you're saying is an accurate representation of your situation, and this is the ONLY job you have found in two years, go to work every day and power through your stuttering, y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterSep 15, 2017
6 points

A stutterer working at a call center

A stutterer working at a call center After months of searching for a job, i finally got an offer to work at a call center answering calls. Now that is not the ideal job for a stutterer like me but im ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2017
1 points

I promise you it gets better. The older you get the less you care what others think and the less you worry about your stutter. I suggest challenging yourself to go out of your comfort zone and start ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2017
1 points

It doesn't help that my name starts with a H which is one of the sounds I stutter over. I find that I just have to stop and say something else otherwise I overthink it. Sometimes making a low humming ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2017
3 points

Not sure if I'm the only one but I found that I have these stutter issues when speaking to someone with authority, or someone who I believe may judge me. I don't stutter on phone calls whenever I'm fe...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2017
3 points

I hate it too and I don't even have a stutter (sorry just chiming in). I think it's fairly universally hated, just to different degrees. You can feel the people around you listening in to what you're ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2017
2 points

I do the exact same thing. I feel like I'm being judged by the people around me as I'm talking on the phone....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2017
2 points

I feel like all eyes are on me even when I know they are not. The added pressure makes me stammer even more so. I also find walking around as a talk very helpful. Sometimes l face down and close my ey...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2017
1 points

Yeah i go to a catholic high school so most of the kids can be pretentious douches so theys why i just dont really talk to a lot of people...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterSep 11, 2017
17 points

Does anyone else hate being on the phone in front of other people?

Does anyone else hate being on the phone in front of other people? When i have to make a phone call i always have to go outside or to a different room if there is someone around. I just feel like i wi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2017
4 points

I watched this movie with a friend. I was uncomfortable through out. is this what I sound like to my friends. I'm embarrassed of myself. It put me in a sour mood the whole day. I need help. ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2017
2 points

Question? Is this pressure do to the fact that they want you to be more outgoing? If that's the case. Go with a friend or friends to the movies, amusementpark or just lunch, dinner. There is no pres...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2017
1 points

Not sure if you're referring to high school or college, but just enjoy your time in school. Most people don't give a fuck that you stutter. Yeah some kids are assholes, but there's nothing you can do ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2017
5 points

Sorry to be "that guy" but rejection is a huge part of life in general. To say you'll stop dating because of the thought of rejection is saying you'll not do competitive sports because of the thought ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2017
3 points

I have more problem when i give it a lot of thought. Repeating a sentence in my head. When doubt enters my conversation my speech wavers. This is why confidence is key and mental health plays a factor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2017
13 points

I feel terribly uncomfortable witnessing other people stutter. I'm getting better at it over the years, but it's still uncomfortable. I think it's because it reflects directly back on me. Maybe that s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride