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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2018
4 points

The best way to know is to ask him. Eiher way, make sure to **NOT LOSE EYE CONTACT** when he starts to stutter! Doing this will make him feel like you dont respect him, his stutter and the conversatio...

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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2018
1 points

I also stutter much more on the phone. For me the hardest & most stressful part is thinking about the transition between waiting and talking. So what I do to combat this is to wear earphones and w...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
postr/StutterFeb 26, 2018
3 points

mr manukha

mr manukha i have a degree in Sociology and Anthropology, but i'm facing problem in term of jobs. most of my degree jobs needs candidates who have good communication, i'm stressed i have no solution. ...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2018
0 points

For me personally it's part of normalizing the situation and unlearn the fear that is connected to stuttering. Loosing that anxiety was the dominant part of my successful therapeutic process....

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2018
3 points

Yes, very much. The first time I saw it I nearly backed right out. I only didn't because I was at a crossroads of pulling myself out of a major slump and made myself read some posts. I hate porky the ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2018
2 points

Applying to jobs sucks ass. CS tech interviews sucks. Talking to profs can be hard. The mental gymnastics of speaking fluently takes a while to learn. A grad student clinician I worked with said jus...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2018
1 points

Never apologize for venting. I'm 24 and stutter. I can empathize with you quite well because I feel the same way. Low self-esteem, being overly self-critical, and the mental distress is familiar to me...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2018
2 points

I'm 21, hit my breaking point when I was 19 in college. Broke down outside the dorm. I went back to speech therapy which has helped tremendously. It's hard to embrace the suck, but reading about th...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyHope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2018
1 points

A few things to note: 1. Can you take these calls in a private room? The anxiety of what others in the room think of you may be a part of it. 2. Change in jobs and life situation has always brough...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2018
2 points

I wish I knew. I believe my great grandfather had a stutter, and others in my family. At the root I think it's genetical, but it has turned into a fear issue. My immense fear, shame and embarrassme...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterFeb 19, 2018
14 points

I am suffering at work

I am suffering at work My stutter/block has gotten really bad lately. Ever since I've started this job (back in April 2017) I have noticed I am having a harder time with my speech that I didn't really...

School & WorkCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2018
2 points

You've gotta get over your fear of talking and what others think about you. I know it's hard, but stressing out about your stutter does nothing to help you at all. It actually makes things so much wor...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2018
1 points

That's not how it works. You're trying to control something that is a part of you and you can't control it. It would be like someone with twitch actively trying to control it. The more harder you try ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterFeb 18, 2018
6 points

Cannot get words out

Cannot get words out Hi guys, I am 20 years old and have been dealing with a stutter/stammer for as long as I can remember. Thankfully the stutter has gotten a lot better in recent years since I hav...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
postr/StutterFeb 17, 2018
3 points

Feeling helpless and frustrated and tired

Feeling helpless and frustrated and tired I’ve had a stutter since I was a child and I gradually got over it until about 8 months ago. It’s come back into my life with a vengeance. It’s been so bad th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2018
1 points

If you have a question, make an appointment or go during office hours. Tell them you stutter before you ask your question. That's what has worked for me and it helps relieve some of the anxiety associ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2018
2 points

I'm sorry to hear this happened. Anxious situations like interviews hardly help with speaking. I get the feeling that you were apprehensive going into the interview - which makes things worse. I highl...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2018
0 points

I honestly wouldn't reccommend going into law enforcement with a stutter, police officers have to do a lot of communicating with other officers and people they deal with in day to day. You have to hav...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2018
2 points

Talk to the university, let them know that you have a stutter and ask them if it'd be a problem. If they don't know beforehand, they'll be surprised and maybe they'll think that you have some type of ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Access & RightsAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2018
1 points

I know very well what you’re going through since I also encountered such hard situations! if it is a very important question, go ahead and ask it. in my case, I’d go to the teacher’s office hour and a...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyAnxiety & Social Judgment