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postr/StutterSep 22, 2019
3 points

Help...

Help... So this is the situation. I can speak perfectly fine at home in front of my family and barely stutter. But, when I am in social situations with strangers, my stutter comes up. Also, when I'm g...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 22, 2019
1 points

That’s very interesting, I could see that happening to myself as well. I’ve found that when I try to explain heavy philosophical concepts (I study philosophy) to others, I tend to explain them very fl...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Propositionality & WeightAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2019
2 points

Who says I'm disbelieving or teasing u . I just got suprised with the theory that says the stutterers r narissitc in two ways. It really blow my mind and I asked u the sources not to question ur infor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterSep 21, 2019
8 points

Introducing myself in a group setting

Introducing myself in a group setting Hey guys, I’ve started university in Dublin (Trinity College) about 3 weeks ago I’ve been having an amazing time so far. I’ve obviously had my ups and downs with ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2019
12 points

I know most people wouldn't care about my stutter. That's not really what discourages me. What discourages me is the fact that I'll never have as much fun as I would being fluent. I can't crack spont...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Frustration & AngerAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2019
3 points

Of course you would. Hot date? Nah I’m gonna have anxiety. Ask a question in class? Nah I’m gonna look stupid. Give a speech for my brothers wedding? Nah I’m gonna embarrass myself. If stuttering...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2019
7 points

I really hate this argument to be honest. No, I wouldn't have other excuses. My only excuse is my stutter....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2019
2 points

If you didn’t stutter you would have some other excuse for it. Maybe it’s a personality issue rather than your stutter....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterSep 20, 2019
33 points

Stuttering is discouraging me from doing fun things

Stuttering is discouraging me from doing fun things I just don't even see the point in leaving my house anymore. - After work drinks with colleagues? Nah, I'm gonna stutter. - Spontaneous date with a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2019
12 points

I have my own opinions on stretching but definitely do not do the humming thing. You're introducing more unnatural junk behaviors into your speech that might work at first and then fail other times. T...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2019
6 points

I'm a Manager in a large tech company and wanted to weigh in here. I agree that stuttering makes the small talk very tough and awkward. Hands down. Please remember that other people have it tough t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PridePersonal Stories+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2019
2 points

That's hilarious even though I probably did it many times before without realizing it. Saying bless you is much harder for me then thanks....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2019
2 points

All the time. I’m never able to say bless you also. I always think people are going to think I’m rude for not saying anything...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2019
2 points

This is what I remember my speech therapist telling me: A stutter is characterized by disfluencies that make up 10% or more of your overall speech. 10% obviously being a very minor one. The range is ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2019
1 points

Same thing happens to me on occasion. Sometimes I’ll do a fake cough or sometime lol. My stuttering kinda comes and goes for months at a time...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionCycles & Randomness
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2019
1 points

I had the same issue. I have to talk on the radio at work and all of a sudden I started getting worse. So I started using easy onsets and practicing with my wife at home (simulating radio chat) and t...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2019
1 points

Please don't avoid words or speaking situations. All forms of avoidance will feed your anxiety. A better way of dealing with blocks would be to learn easy onsets to prevent blocks from occurring, or ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2019
1 points

Yes, me too, I use easier words and I take a deep breath and on the exhale, I begin speaking....

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2019
2 points

Hey, yeah I have had issues with job interviews. Had an interviewer hang up on me once because he thought the connection was bad when in reality I was blocking. We have good and bad days and honestly ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkMeds & Substances
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & CareerHelpful Med Outcomes+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2019
1 points

Yes, my own name (Dylan) but with the technique I have learnt, it has worked wonders. I’ve been on the programme almost a year and I’ve realised it’s more situational, for me anyways, being on the spo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more