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commentr/StutterSep 29, 2019
0 points

*le sigh* Edit: seriously, I see what you’re saying. I’m just not there yet. I love making jokes though. People laugh at different things I guess. Glad you are able to laugh at yourself though, that’...

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commentr/StutterSep 29, 2019
-2 points

I don't see why its so bad for someone to make a joke about it, I keep a healthy spirit and genuinely sometimes encourage people to make jokes about it as long as they don't push the line. Its not the...

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commentr/StutterSep 29, 2019
2 points

Yeah, I'm not saying the trajectory would be the same for all of us, but I find that if we allow ourselves to be amused by the weird sounds that sometimes come out of our mouth... it's less "dangerous...

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commentr/StutterSep 29, 2019
1 points

Oh, I wasn't asking if you could find it funny when _others_ found it funny. The question is specifically about finding it funny _yourself_. I'm not quite sure if "make light of it" captures this?...

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commentr/StutterSep 28, 2019
3 points

I started to do that a few years ago and guess what? I feel less pressure and stutter less. Also, Paroxetine helped me with my social anxiety. Not, that I stutter less, just I care less and less every...

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commentr/StutterSep 28, 2019
1 points

No, I decided that I wanted to pursue another venture to help with my stutter....

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commentr/StutterSep 28, 2019
5 points

A little lighthearted teasing once in a while doesn't bother me, as long as it seems good-natured enough and the person is normally nice to me. It only bothers me if I'm really obviously struggling. ...

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postr/StutterSep 28, 2019
7 points

Why can I say "thank you" when someone does me a small favor, but when someone does me a big favor there is no way I can say "thank you"

Why can I say "thank you" when someone does me a small favor, but when someone does me a big favor there is no way I can say "thank you" I really feel bad when I can't say thank you to someone, but so...

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commentr/StutterSep 28, 2019
4 points

I wish I could find humor in it when they do but I haven’t yet. Maybe in the future, I’m open to it. I’ve tried to make light of it sometimes...

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commentr/StutterSep 28, 2019
2 points

Say, are you able to have a laugh about your stutter? Like, is that a thing you do sometimes?...

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commentr/StutterSep 28, 2019
1 points

''think before you speak'' thats exactly what I do, I think of how to phrase sentences differently to not stutter. He may as well tell us ''just speak properly lol''...

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commentr/StutterSep 28, 2019
1 points

What I quite like doing, is talking until I stutter, which differes from person to person. But when it eventually happens. I try to say “oh and by the way, I have a stutter”, and I find once that li...

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postr/StutterSep 27, 2019
43 points

I conquered one big fear today and I now I kinda feel hopeful for the future

I conquered one big fear today and I now I kinda feel hopeful for the future I just want to share that I’ve been stuttering my whole life. I had a stutter when I was in elementary school, then when I ...

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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2019
22 points

Compartmentalise that shit bro! Your stutter doesn't define you, and it's not the reason you think people are ignoring you. Having a stutter can feel utterly debilitating, and there can be a tendency ...

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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2019
1 points

I don’t unless I’m giving a tour to children because sometimes they ask why I did that or sound funny. It’s just to help them understand and the teachers usually approve of having a positive role mode...

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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2019
1 points

I guess it depends on the context. So new people I'm meeting in person for the first time generally figure it out, no need to bring it up but if you are meeting up with someone for the first time in ...

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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2019
1 points

Usually upon meeting someone. "I'm X. I have speech impediment by the way, so if I stutter, that's why," and go on with conversation. If i did not disclose it upon meeting someone, I'll do it when I ...

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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2019
3 points

If it's at a networking event I stutter before being able to tell them I stutter so they know. I don't make a joke about but it but think it's a good approach to break the ice for those who like it....

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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2019
1 points

By stuttering, you shouldn't try to hide it. But If they ask or seem concerned, you should probably tell them....

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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2019
1 points

I like to go “I stutter, that’s how it is. Can’t control it.” I’m subtly trying to assert my dominance lol. Disclosing your stutter is the built-in asshole detector. If people react strangely to you b...

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