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commentr/StutterSep 25, 2024
0 points

I'm not handsome but not ugly either just an average looking guy as per my country's standards, so don't think online dating could be of any help. Circumstances are not on my side either I'm still un...

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Helplessness & AgencyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
1 points

Like, if in US your local counseling center might offer IOP services which I don't think you NEED a mandatory 72hr stay to be referred. Sometimes these are for people discharged from psych or detox so...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
1 points

Wow that's some bullshit no one should have to put up with yet so many of us seem to have this happen in some setting.  Clearly they don't desire to change and you aren't the problem. Stupidity can ...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
7 points

Sounds like a crappy unsupportive family. If anyone is the problem it’s your parents for screwing you up with the gift of proper speech. All you can do is suck it up till you can move on. This is n...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
1 points

It's really hard opening up your mind after these experiences, I've accepted my fate so it's okay ig. Life is a short story so these complaints won't matter after some time....

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
8 points

Well if it's a filter I think it's clogged cuz nobody wanna get pass through it. I own my stutter I really do even in the embarassing moments when I hear someone laughing in the crowd as I'm talking ...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
31 points

Gonna sound like general shitty dating advice but I think it's applicable here. Just be yourself, and treat your stutter like a filter. If they make fun of your stutter, then they aren't worth...

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Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
2 points

Bro, first of all, we all get your perspective. But think about this for a second....if most people on this forum have jobs and also have a stutter bad enough that they are talking about it on this fo...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
6 points

There’s the catch though: if you accept stuttering, you may stutter, but it won’t come with the doubt and fear. The doubt and fear comes from frustration and self loathing due to lack of control. When...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
3 points

Thanks I don't think it's fair to make this an excuse for not trying... We gotta play the hand we're dealt....

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postr/StutterSep 24, 2024
11 points

It sucks to always have a doubt in the back of my mind

It sucks to always have a doubt in the back of my mind Doubt that I might not be able to speak. Even if I accept stuttering I will always have to live with this doubt and fear. Speaking is always goin...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
1 points

Okay you have two lìves: on and off the clock. On the clock, any decent employer will make adjustments for you. They want your skills beyond speech. We work because we have to. Off the clock, you have...

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Employment & CareerHelplessness & AgencyMindset shift
postr/StutterSep 23, 2024
27 points

Feel lost. Inclined to believe the root cause of my failures is my stammering.

Feel lost. Inclined to believe the root cause of my failures is my stammering. I (27m) feel like a failure. I blame a lot of it on my stammer. It hinders everything....it's probably the worst thing on...

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commentr/StutterSep 22, 2024
2 points

If it were easy to just not care about something that has negatively affected our lives by the limitations and the stigma....

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Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 22, 2024
2 points

I'm upset about my stuttering too, I used to stutter slightly, but when I started wanting to be free my stuttering has become more and more severe, it's like a force from beyond that forces us to be u...

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commentr/StutterSep 22, 2024
1 points

Sound like your friend is not mature to understand this. You should separate from him. Friends come and go, this is normal. The most important is the love and care of yourself. That's what we have to ...

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commentr/StutterSep 22, 2024
15 points

I am so sorry this happened to you. Our loved ones should be the ones supporting and understanding us but more often than then not they just aren’t. Try to draw a strong boundary with him over this....

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2024
0 points

I felt like I was tied up in chains and no matter what I did I couldn’t escape (say what I wanted to say) it’s exhausting being a person who stutters !!...

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commentr/StutterSep 20, 2024
1 points

Well, that's the overly casual version. Basically I'd been working only 15 hours a week for many years due to my mental health issues, then my company shut down so everyone lost their jobs. That was D...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Helplessness & AgencyHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2024
1 points

Can we have a chat? I’m also a stutterer and orphan, i need life guide advice...

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