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commentr/StutterJan 1, 2019
3 points

I totally feel you. I used to be able to engage in conversations years ago with no issues and now it feels like an impossible task because I'm all up in my head. I have ADD and I'm prescribed an amphe...

Causes & VariabilityMeds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightHelpful Med OutcomesAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJan 1, 2019
31 points

I am asocial

I am asocial And I feel bad about it. The only conversation I bother having is non-vocal i.e. texting. I don't go to parties, and when I do I dread every second of it. In casual conversation I cann...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2018
2 points

Wow, you really went for the throat. I usually just inform them that I have a speech problem, they apologize, and then I say it's fine. I kind of have mixed feelings about what you did because if you ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2018
1 points

I am not blaming society for we being stutterers. I am blaming it for making it a problem or impediment. My goal with this post was to expose that the fact of repeating syllables or having blocks shou...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2018
2 points

Try to accept it as a little flaw of yours that youll get over soon, hang out with people who don't care about your stutter and don't be too hard on yourself. ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2018
1 points

Yeah the last part. If I do not think about it it's fine. How do I not think about it?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2018
1 points

Yeah, if I just do not focus on my stuttering, it's kinda fixed. It's just hard to not think about it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2018
1 points

For me a lot of it is mental. If you can somehow forget you stutter on the letter k, or not expect to stutter, that has helped me...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 30, 2018
1 points

Thank you so much for this response! It’s even worse when people don’t know that you stutter because when you actually do have a bad moment they’re so confused as to what’s going on lol...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 30, 2018
2 points

I was prescribed Xanax (Alprazolam) 2mg. To be honest, I thought the medication was working because when I was doing presentations for school I thought I was speaking very well. But the truth was, it ...

Emotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelpful Med OutcomesSide Effects & Risks
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2018
4 points

Dang, I'm sorry to hear that. I work in healthcare as well, but I have the luxury of calling people in private if I choose. You're certainly braver than I am for working in a position that broadcasts ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2018
2 points

Yep or "I thought you'd forgotten what degree you were doing! HAHA" or "Were you trying to remember how old you are? HAHA". I can tell people are usually well-meaning trying to break the ice with a jo...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 27, 2018
5 points

Tensing up while speaking! And Just enjoying life

Tensing up while speaking! And Just enjoying life 18(Y/O) M Basically , Everytime I talk , I just tend to tense up my abdomen and shut my vocal cords (like I stop breathing), regardless of whether I s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightEnergy & Biological Rhythms+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2018
3 points

It's difficult for me to say as well. Just the other day, a co-worker said "Merry Christmas" to me and I instinctively said "Thanks!" Then she paused and said, "Well...you know, IF you celebrate Chr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2018
1 points

Why do you think you're nervous around family? Do you fear stuttering to them?...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2018
3 points

For some reason, I’m nervous the most around family, and when I’m around strangers I feel very comfortable to the point where I sometimes want to start a conversation with a random person just so that...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2018
2 points

Our stutter tends to vary with the social roles we perform. Perhaps you're less invested personally when talking to strangers?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2018
1 points

Probably because there’s more pressure on you, whereas if you said something out of the blue no one would have been glaring at you....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 24, 2018
3 points

Only stuttering in social situations

Only stuttering in social situations I’m sure I can speak for everyone when I say I stutter when another human is involved. If I’m talking to myself or to a baby or pet, I don’t stutter. I recently lo...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Neurological & BrainAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2018
6 points

yep. The "What did you say?" question always gets me. The reason is almost certainly anxiety. Dealing with that has really helped me....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment