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postr/StutterDec 22, 2022
22 points

People at office treat me like I'm stupid & slow, and they laugh behind my back

People at office treat me like I'm stupid & slow, and they laugh behind my back Hi there, So, I obviously stutter that's why I'm here. I work from office as Software engineer. Have noticed that s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2022
1 points

Thank you!! I agree that food is a problem and a source of unhealthy comfort. I want to start working out and taking care of myself. I need to get out of my comfort zone. I don't know how to break the...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Mindfulness & BreathingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2022
2 points

Thank you! I definitely need an outlet. Right now, it's just work and home. I need to break out of my shell and find a hobby....

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Advice RequestsQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2022
2 points

Th above comment is very accurate. “Communication is not defined by fluency. AND, as long as it is, you will not dream, you will not speak, and you will not live your life to the fullest.” “Speaki...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2022
5 points

As someone who had a similar situation when I was younger, I can't recommend deleting social media like Instagram/Facebook off your phone enough! That shits going to mess with you non stop with basic...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Quality of LifeFriendships & BelongingHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2022
2 points

It is unappealing to people but the alternative would be silent blocking in their face for 30 seconds or more which seems more unappealing so the phone thing feels like the reasonable choice to me. I’...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of LifeDating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2022
3 points

I write down most of my communication because my stutter is so bad. Very frequently people think I’m deaf and I WAY prefer someone trying to be accommodating over someone who’s being a dick and trying...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2022
1 points

I am in the same boat, and the same country btw Had a similar experience on my birthday the last year my first panic attack ever i was picked up by an ambulance and when i arrived at the emergency dep...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2022
7 points

Hiding from it was the worst thing I ever did. Exposure is the absolute best thing I ever did. I do still have anxiety but now I can take a deep breath and make a phone call I need to make instead of ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2022
21 points

I used to walk 20 mins to a store just to find out they didn't have what I wanted because I was too afraid to make a phone call. Mild or severe you're not alone. It's your fault if you do nothing ab...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2022
1 points

Yeah definitely. I’m 27 and I’ve been to different speech therapists, speech camps and other methods. Nothing seems to work long term and it’s exhausting since my stuttering mainly is long blocks for ...

Causes & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2022
3 points

I, also, don’t really talk unless I have to. It’s exhausted to keep a conversation. A ten minute conversation; afterwards I feel like I ran a marathon....

Social & Relationships
Quality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2022
3 points

I think I would be a very different person if I could speak normally. I would love to be able to socialize, to discuss things and give my opinions, to talk to girls, to be funny. I'm pretty much force...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Quality of LifeAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2022
2 points

Tons. Talking isn't just some activity that comes up every now and then -- normal humans are expected to communicate constantly. My stutter affects every interaction all day long every day. It affects...

Social & Relationships
Quality of Life
postr/StutterDec 16, 2022
13 points

My stutter feels to be getting worse

My stutter feels to be getting worse I have a stutter that I remember always having, it's not a "thinking fast" kind of stutter like saying "i-i-i- I like something". Idk if that was a good explanatio...

Speech & StutteringSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesPhysical TensionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2022
5 points

In elementary school when my stutter was really bad I basically had no friends and was a loner. But then when I got to high school my stutter was less prevalent and I got a lot more friends. It sucks ...

Social & Relationships
Quality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
2 points

Yes, exactly. I personally *vastly* prefer a really abnormal life over none at all, and I don’t even think stuttering is an intrinsically horrible ailment. Everyone has problems, and I feel lucky mine...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
1 points

For my interpretation, I take fluency out of the equation. Voluntary stuttering, fear reduction/tolerance/acceptance is about feeling in control of the situation and doing whatever I want and saying ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Quality of LifeAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2022
1 points

We all know sometimes stutterers avoid speaking situations...so by having the girl call off a date because we stutter....yes that's rude!!! But it's like she is wanting to avoid the stuttering perso...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
postr/StutterDec 14, 2022
22 points

So, It's been 14 years in sales!

So, It's been 14 years in sales! Not sure why exactly am I posting this experience but it'll help me think out loud and might help others that feel related to this. I still don't know how I managed ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more