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commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2024
1 points

Heyy a therapist as in regular therapist or speech therapist? I realized that I need to accept myself only way my speech can come out fluently and not be something I’m not. But it’s hard as I see s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2024
8 points

My tip would be to live life as if you didn't have a stutter. ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2024
1 points

It's rare at this age for sure, but bit unheard of. I know someone who started at this age. My biggest advice is not to try to hide and control your stutter. That only layers in bad habits and shame. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2024
1 points

Lol. It just and idea. Why so much hate. I never claimed to be right or wrong. Just read something that make sense to me on my book and wanted to share. If you argument with that kind of hate regardl...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
1 points

I know this isn't everyone's experience all the time - but when people stutter openly, use an unapologetic disclosure statement, and focus on the content of the conversation - as opposed to trying to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
2 points

Newly developed stutter?

Newly developed stutter? In middle school and early high school, I was very talkative and known as the class clown. Then the pandemic happened, and I just stayed inside and barely spoke to anyone. Sin...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
14 points

Tell the truth. Don't project a false image of yourself to lessen the reality of your situation. Be truthful and honest with why you think you don't deserve it, if that's really what you believe. I ca...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2024
2 points

Hey man, I'm sorry you've had some tough experiences. You deserve to be heard whether you hardly stutter at all or stutter on every word! I know it's hard to feel that when it seems like others aroun...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilityParent & Caregiver
Advice OfferedValidation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. Masking+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2024
1 points

I’m in the same boat! I’m 27 and my stutter has been quite severe these past few years. I’d say most days, it was around 6-8. Started using Citalopram in November of 2023; right around when I started ...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helpful Med OutcomesHarmful Med OutcomesShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2024
1 points

Thank you for commenting! Yeah it’s like… I’ve gotten so used to saying the term ‘words’ when I stutter that now it’s a compulsory thing and that’s hard for me to accept. Since this post I even did s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2024
3 points

I used to use a lot of filler words when I felt a block to get my vocal cords phonating um, well, etc and then use that word to blend into the next. I don’t feel that ultimately helped me accept my s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
postr/StutterMedicationFeb 9, 2024
2 points

Three Years on Lexapro: A Transformative Journey to Overcoming Stuttering

Three Years on Lexapro: A Transformative Journey to Overcoming Stuttering I’m four weeks into Lexapro and seeing amazing results. Most importantly, it took my speech impediment away, almost completely...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Helpful Med OutcomesAnticipating StutteringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2024
4 points

Well sure, you don’t owe ‘em anything! Fuck ‘em :). But for me it’s for my own benefit of wanting to feel understood. Just like I would be bothered if they got my name wrong. Leaning into a pronounce...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2024
2 points

If you're asking... It's time to mention it. Otherwise you're going to let it grow into something larger than it needs to be. Your disfluency shouldn't be a secret. It shouldn't be an issue. You're u...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2024
3 points

Always disclose it before meeting. It really makes me feel relaxed otherwise i just try to hide it and this makes it even worse....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2024
6 points

As someone who stutters and used dating apps in the past, I say to disclose it before you meet. They most likely won't care if you stutter or not. They may be taken aback though if their first time kn...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterFeb 7, 2024
7 points

When to tell I stutter

When to tell I stutter I met someone online and I was wondering what the best approach is to mention that I stutter. I think my stutter is mild to moderate, depending on the situation. People can defi...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2024
3 points

I agree, and Tony's premise or insinuations about things like stuttering may be wrong, hilariously so in fact, but his methods and help does work and help. So far, even the people who disagreed with ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2024
3 points

It’s an opportunity. An opportunity to train my mind that stuttering is not a big deal, and I can take away its power over me....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2024
17 points

Yup, this really goes for stuttering in general. People mirror our reaction to it. If we're uncomfortable stuttering, they're uncomfortable listening. If we're unbothered, they're unbothered....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride