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postr/StutterFeb 21, 2019
10 points

At My Breaking Point

At My Breaking Point Hi everybody! After finding this subreddit earlier and reading some posts I've decided to create an appropriately named throwaway account and post how I'm feeling living with my s...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2019
2 points

As usual I just rehearse the material so much I don’t need notes and can just talk from the hip(might only be a danish saying), so it went quite well since I can choose my own words but still say what...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2019
1 points

Great post! As a lifelong stutterer who is now going in to the job search and interviewing process (and anxious as hell about it), this story helped put things in perspective. ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterFeb 20, 2019
30 points

Being a stutterer and having a child who stutters

Being a stutterer and having a child who stutters I’ve stuttered ever since I can remember, it’s mild/moderate, definitely has improved since childhood. Now I have a daughter and she is 4, I noticed a...

Parent & CaregiverSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Early Concern & OnsetBlocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2019
14 points

To echo everybody else in this thread: Thank you for sharing, and I'm sure we all connect with that feeling of loneliness and self-isolation. I'm 34, I don't remember *not* stuttering, although in tr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2019
1 points

my stutter started with the puberty, when i got anxiety about everything. since there i never more meet any friend and went to parties, i almost got depressed. now things are getting better, i hope....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 19, 2019
39 points

today i successfully spoke to my whole class

today i successfully spoke to my whole class i had to read mine part of group work, and was very anxiety , my hearth was beating so fast. but i don't know how, i just clearly spoke with no stutter. ...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPositive Therapy Techniques
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2019
1 points

I second the comment about feeling anxious around them and judged by them. I actually stutter around kids because kids make me nervous. I'm not used to being around kids so I stutter worse around them...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2019
3 points

I've thought that exact same thing about not being able to express myself the way I want to. I also have a small lisp so I've always lacked confidence in my voice in general, which is pretty sad. It g...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2019
1 points

Hey there, buddy. We all feel you in this stuttering thing. Q/A is probably the most common issue that stutterers like us has problem with, that feeling when you know all the answers and yet you can't...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2019
10 points

MO- you feel you are being judged from adults and don’t feel comfortable around them. If you can bring the same emotion and frame of mind you do while talking to younger people to adults. I think tha...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterFeb 18, 2019
21 points

If I don't stutter/stutter very very little around children and people younger than me, can I replicate that with adults.

If I don't stutter/stutter very very little around children and people younger than me, can I replicate that with adults. I don't stutter at all around children and people younger than me, but when sp...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating StutteringBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2019
9 points

My parents would say "don't stutter" every time I would stutter. Like, thanks. You cured me. About thinking before you speak, I definitely don't think it helped me at all. When giving speeches in sch...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2019
3 points

Here's from my experience. Sit down relaxed smiling at the other person, casually look them in their eyes. Any experienced person will start with small, getting to know you questions. Try to build a t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2019
1 points

I get the same thing I'll go through days or weeks of more severe stuttering. To the point where friends around me will ask me if I'm OK because I've been stuttering more than usual. The best thing I ...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightMindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterFeb 17, 2019
8 points

Does anyone here have experience with tinder?

Does anyone here have experience with tinder? As a stutterer, it’s hard for me to start a conversation with women or even approach them. I feel like tinder is a good way to avoid the approaching part,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2019
3 points

That's really good! This up coming month I am moving and need to start applying for new jobs. The interview process is what's making me dread it because of my stutter. So thanks for sharing and giving...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterFeb 17, 2019
38 points

Botched my phone interview, yet they still moved me forward.

Botched my phone interview, yet they still moved me forward. Last week I had a phone interview as I am looking for work despite my stuttering being at its worst in years. The recruiter called me and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2019
2 points

You're not alone, it's happened and continues to happen to many of us. Like you, this often happens to me at work. I can't say a word and I'll play dumb like I've forgotten... Such is life. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2019
2 points

We have all been there man. I have had similar instances throughout my life. I would cope by becoming completing numb and just locking up my feelings so to speak. However all the feelings would come h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career