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commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2020
17 points

Same thing happens to me, but I take advantage of the person not seeing me, so I do weird things like punch a wall or stomp with my foot to get the word out. It sucks but you kinda have to live with i...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2020
5 points

Phones really are the worst thing as there's no visual cues to tell the other person that you're trying to speak if they just hang on a second. The pressure to say something on answering tends to make...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 18, 2020
31 points

Not attending a call again

Not attending a call again So i usually dont pick up calls anyways( very heavy stutter here), But im close to graduating and have given my cv in a couple of places. And I get calls sometimes from the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2020
2 points

I've been given this 'advice' by my non-stuttering friends as a teen, like "you don't stutter when you do funny voice impersonations, can't you just always pretend you're acting?" It doesn't really w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2020
2 points

Stuttering’s a very difficult thing, that’s something all stutterers can agree on lol. The hypothesis and advice helps me out a lot though, calling the tension a “brick wall” is a wonderful analogy. ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Propositionality & WeightAvoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2020
1 points

What's your problem with 'd' in English, exactly? Are you sure you have a stutter, and not just a specific pronunciation issue?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2020
7 points

I hate that too. But when my friends help me say my name I’m fine with it. Since I get stuck on my name for like 5 fucking minutes....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2020
1 points

I'm sorry you have to go through this. When you signed up for this job, it was not in the job description to be mocked and it takes a lot of courage and confidence for you to continue working there. P...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2020
18 points

That used to annoy me to no end. Then I just started ignoring it and focus on saying what I wanted, regardless of whether the word had already been guessed and uttered by another. No need to worry a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2020
2 points

I was in the elevator last night with a boyfriend’s friend I met not too long ago and he asked me for my name because he forgot and I said it with only a small block happening. Feels great when you ar...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterFeb 15, 2020
18 points

I blame my parents for my stuttering

I blame my parents for my stuttering Hi. I'm 21 y/o male and I've been stuttering since my childhood. When I was young there were many stressful circumstances in my family, which caused my stuterring....

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2020
3 points

I'm not entirely convinced we should be speaking about "triggers". Stutter varies a lot - all on its own, so to say - and it's not like we can somehow be fluent all the time, as long as we avoid "trig...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterFeb 15, 2020
3 points

Recently my stuttering problem got worse

Recently my stuttering problem got worse I have Been a stutter for my whole life but recently I felt something terrifying. Whenever I am in a conversation I have this premonition that I am going to st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2020
2 points

I worked at a veterinary hospital and often worked reception. I LOVED my name tag. It was nice to have something as “back up” if you will. I even sprung and paid extra to get my name embroidered on my...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2020
1 points

I am 28 years old. I notice if i use a different tone of voice i dont stutter as much if at all. Works best over the phone or giving your order at the drive thru. When its face to face i kinda talk wi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability
postr/StutterFeb 14, 2020
2 points

Doing what you like with a stutter

Doing what you like with a stutter I’m a 23M college student and currently doing music Ed which I want to switch out of because I don’t feel like if teaching is for me. I have an interest in music the...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerAvoidance & SubstitutionPublic Awareness / Media
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2020
4 points

Huge win!! Sometimes when Im in situations where I have to say my name at a front desk setting I’ll just get around it by presenting my id so I applaud your bravery!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterFeb 14, 2020
9 points

When does your stutter worsen?

When does your stutter worsen? Mine is usually when I'm anxious or trying to speak to quickly I'm trying to find more triggers as to why my stutter suddenly just kicks in...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightAvoidance & SubstitutionAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2020
1 points

Your physchology directly affects your speech. Do You stutter when you are alone? No. Then by fixing your physchology, which is hard, you can fix 50% of the issue. That is good enough....

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Trauma & PsychologicalAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterFeb 14, 2020
4 points

The bitter truth

The bitter truth Just I know that in this year I can't resist anymore I rejeced to go in college bc reason was stuttering damn this disorder is TERRIBLE i lost friends everything they not gone about m...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Helplessness & AgencySadness & HopelessnessAvoidance & Substitution+1 more