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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2024
2 points

I’m going to go out on a limb here and say that almost all stutterers either avoid words/letters, avoid situations or have so fundamentally altered their life that they don’t even know that they are/n...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterOct 23, 2024
9 points

My crush asked me why I'm so quiet and I'm kind of upset about it

My crush asked me why I'm so quiet and I'm kind of upset about it Don't get me wrong, 9 times out of 10, people don't have any bad intentions when asking that. It's just that when I was younger, if s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
-6 points

Stop being a pussy. I have a bad stutter and that hasnt stopped me from dating women and making friends. You will be alone if you keep having that lousy attitude and low self esteem because nobody wil...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2024
1 points

Yeah but these people are extraordinary in what they do and have shown that they have the momentum and the will power to do what they did . I have been such a hard stutterer that I can't speak more th...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2024
3 points

Tbh I kinda push it back and ignore it, but when It does cross my mind I kinda deal with it terribly and feel Iike shit, especially because all my old/current friends have met new people and are enjoy...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2024
2 points

Exactly! Sadly, lots of people in this sub are covert stutterers (go to great lengths to hide the fact that they stutter and end up w blocks, etc), and get very insulted when someone has an involunta...

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2024
2 points

Yeah, people who do it as a joke are just assholes. But in my opinion if there genuine and just trying to help I say it’s for the better. Saves us both time. Your little brother sounds like he deser...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2024
7 points

Probably if they make fun of you due to the stutter or not. I’m sure it’s a no braining for all of us, but if we are speaking to someone and they go “t-t-t-t-today junior!” During a stutter it immedia...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2024
3 points

I hate it, especially if they do it as a joke. I remember talking to my mom about something and I was trying to say “fear” but my little broker finished it with “Fetish”...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterOct 19, 2024
10 points

Well this is the first.

Well this is the first. 26M (gay) was on a dating site & this older gentlemen offered me some money to go clean a couple rugs he had. I’m about to go to on a trip so I need the extra money. Before I l...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2024
1 points

same once i got stuck on a word i started rocking my head back and fourth and glitching i remember the teachers expression ,the kids laughter i felt like an alien that day a scar for life...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterOct 17, 2024
6 points

Am I wrong for being angry at my mom?

Am I wrong for being angry at my mom? My little cousin had his birthday today and out of nowhere when I was playing games, mom came to my room while holding phone and told me that I need to wish my co...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2024
0 points

Getting over the fear of stuttering solves what exactly? That still doesn't change the fact that we are not able to communicate partially or for people like me, almost completely. It doesn't change th...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2024
1 points

I’m not going to sugar coat it high school years can suck if you stutter. My years weren’t much better and I even ditched a lot to avoid the anxiety. I still graduated on time not sure how I managed t...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2024
2 points

I literally feel the same and my life is ruined because of this(i am 14y old). I will try to follow your techniques maybe they will help me fix my speech....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2024
18 points

So he's a whore and lacks a frontal lobe? Must suck to be him. Don't ever feel bad about being a virgin, because sex should be saved for someone who you truly love. I am also a virgin with a stutter...

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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2024
1 points

He stutters about every sentence I just don’t think about. I thought most people would hear a stutter and think it less important than the words that are trying to be said.  Something I thought when h...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2024
2 points

Oooooh yeah that one is so fucking annoying! One time i had to call a government institution (sorry if that's the wrong term, English is not my first language), and i had a big ass stutter attack. So ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2024
2 points

Yeah I get you. It's like you stop eating and sleeping properly. Cos you're living with a stutter. So you're like self care goes out the window cos you're like traumatised by your stutter. Makes every...

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postr/StutterOct 14, 2024
3 points

Online meetings

Online meetings Hello all, As I have nobody in my circle who would understand I would like to share my feelings here. I’ve been stuttering my whole life. I had ups and downs, I went through many t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more