Search

commentr/StutterSep 5, 2014
2 points

Why do you apologize for something you can't control? For the rest I think you are handling your stuttering fine....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2014
1 points

Keep your head up. I've been stuttering my whole life and I went through exactly the same things you're going through. The truth is, yes, it sucks, but it also gets better. You have to learn to accept...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2014
2 points

Hey man! I'm in college, my junior year and I will tell you, it gets easier. I went through a long period of depression and I'm somewhat still in it, but i'm telling you, it get's easier. Just like wh...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2014
6 points

At the NSA conference I met a trial lawyer who has a pretty strong stutter but he's practicing and speaking in court rooms all the time and making it work. He said a key realization that helped him wa...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2014
1 points

maaaaaan it's about 100000x easier said than done, but realizing that though we might not be able to totally change our speech, we can change how we feel about it and ourselves and I think that's the ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2014
10 points

Hey man, don't give up. I've stuttered my whole life, and of course I chose a profession (lawyer) where I have to speak for a living. I have anxiety about speaking all the time, but its how you reac...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2014
1 points

Thanks for the comment, I agree it's not worth pursuing unless it's 2nd nature. Since your an extrovert I really think the first step you should take is try to learn to be comfortable with it, becau...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2014
1 points

everyone ive met in college find my stutter endearing for some reason, my advice: dont worry about it if you get a block well then you get a block...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Acceptance & PrideBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2014
1 points

I'm completely open about it. I don't make it a point to go up to random strangers or anything, but if I'm speaking with someone I don't know and feel like I'm about to have problems with a word, I ju...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
2 points

I may be a unique case. I have my ups and downs for fluency, but I usually don't concede that anything is wrong with my speech. I'm okay with people knowing that I stutter, but if I'm meeting new peop...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
2 points

Obe, you've hit the bullseye. I think that's the key, you've got to own it and not let it own you. I wish you the best of luck. Im not very open but im working on it. Trying to hold eye contact, get ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
postr/StutterSep 1, 2014
7 points

How open are you about your stutter? Does being more explicit help?

How open are you about your stutter? Does being more explicit help? I usually only speak to my family and close friends about my stutter. I'm sure the I people see on a regular basis know I have a stu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
1 points

What you wrote is quite inspiring, I am glad you were able to get to a place where you feel comfortable in your own skin and able to say what you want to say when you want to say it. I am 21 years ol...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social JudgmentEnergy & Biological Rhythms+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2014
1 points

I think it's like any other job -- it'll be hard at first to talk to people (over the phone, in person, etc.,) but then get a lot easier. Think about it -- you'll have to call other agents on your cli...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2014
2 points

I can see where you are coming from, but you are still describing someone who has a positive attitude towards stuttering. Of course it is very enjoyable when people are interested in you, and how stut...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2014
1 points

I just wrote a genetics paper on stuttering. Unrelated to the paper, I read an article written by a SLP from several decades ago. The jist was as stutterers, we view our stutters as their own entity. ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Genetic & Family FactorsIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2014
2 points

I'm actually very happy with #1, because most people I encounter really don't know what a stutter is or what it's like to feel that way. I typically find people who do #1 more kinder and patient with ...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideValidation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2014
2 points

That's a very interesting post Blaat1985. I'd especially like to know how psychotherapy goes for you. I've had very limited exposure to speech therapy. Spent the first eight years of my life in a lit...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyTherapy ExperiencesAcceptance & Pride+1 more
postr/StutterAug 27, 2014
5 points

Your speech therapy history

Your speech therapy history I'm curious about the speech therapy history of people here. I will start with mine. I began stuttering at the age of five. Stuttering runs in my family, so I assume I had...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringGenetic & Family Factors+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2014
3 points

I just graduated from college, lately I've been pretty fluent but also have some blocks and occasional repetitions. My stutter has been the biggest battle in my intrapersonal life and I've trie...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking