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commentr/StutterJul 25, 2025
12 points

This. As far as modern science knows, there is no better option or treatment known at the moment for stuttering. Hell, we don't even know the cause - how are we supposed to treat it, then? It's a ho...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2025
40 points

I agree. when it stops you from getting jobs and having basic conversations, there's no way you can accept it. we don't get disability for it so it does affect us our livelyhoods....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJul 24, 2025
79 points

I'm tired of this community gaslighting people.

I'm tired of this community gaslighting people. Why everyone advocating for people to just "accept" their stutter? Do you know that some people are simply not capable of that? Y'all must not have a se...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideBlocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/StutterJul 24, 2025
6 points

Tip for Speech Blocks

Tip for Speech Blocks Hello fellow speech blockers. At 23 years old, I've struggled like many of you and come today with something that might help you make progress towards your goal of fluency. A...

Speech & StutteringCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Blocks & StoppagesTrauma & PsychologicalAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2025
1 points

Learn to work with it. Turn it in to a charm and use it to your advantage for confidence. Be funny girls like that...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2025
1 points

That’s not so simple to do and is very expensive. At times you need a job just to survive. Yes I agree with your sentiment to embrace your stutter. I am currently thinking hard about changing my pro...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2025
1 points

I would say self acceptance first and then if you want to pursue actual speech therapy, you'll already be in a better place mentally which is only going to increase your chances of long term success. ...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Positive Therapy TechniquesHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2025
1 points

I have been focusing in self acceptance and building up my social skills/confidence for the past couple of years and really I am much happier than when I was focused on improving my fluency. The way I...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2025
3 points

I am so happy for you! Acceptance is the key for more peace of mind! I’m also on a similar journey, we got thisss! ✨...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2025
1 points

So if there was a cure u wouldn't take it? Cuz why would u since stuttering is such a gift...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2025
2 points

Excellent perspective! The people we talk to take cues on how to react from us. If we’re embarrassed and awkward about our speech, then they’ll feel they have to feel embarrassed or ashamed about it, ...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterJul 23, 2025
29 points

acceptance!!

acceptance!! i don't have much to say here but i just wanted to share that yesterday i was on a call with my best friend- who knows i stutter- and usually i avoid difficult words out of embarrassment,...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2025
3 points

It all depends on which fits your values. Whichever path you choose, self-acceptance or fluency, both will come with experiences of suffering (all the stuff we feel when we stutter. But only one of t...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2025
1 points

You have to accept on some level that you have a speech disorder and that there is no cure. This will protect you from the people trying to sell you so-called cures. Once you've done that, absolutely...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Acceptance & PrideFluency TechniquesSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2025
3 points

Acceptance of stuttering is what worked for me. I still stutter quite a bit, but it reduced *significantly* when i decided to chill TF out. Well, it took some work to figure out *how* to chill out, bu...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2025
14 points

For me, it’s self-acceptance. I had speech therapy into my late twenties and it didn’t help my moderate stutter. But at some point, I decided I was just going to do as much public speaking as possible...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftDisclosure & Telling Others+2 more
postr/StutterJul 23, 2025
20 points

Should I focus on self-acceptance or speech improvement?

Should I focus on self-acceptance or speech improvement? I know these two goals aren't mutually exclusive — ideally, I’d work on both at the same time. But right now, it doesn’t feel feasible. I’d rea...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2025
1 points

in my own experience & area , people dont really care but some people think their helping & they will finish wtv your saying while others patiently wait for you to get done. You can only control how y...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideFrustration & AngerHumor & Community Tone+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2025
1 points

Basically accept it. It’ll never go away. At least not 100%… and just find a support system that helps you. I hated my stutter. Always have but all of my friends/family was always there for me. Helped...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideAdvice RequestsMindfulness & Breathing+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2025
1 points

Huh, to me it seems that the *positive* posts are more downvoted and made fun of, while the negative posts are celebrated. But anyway, no point in arguing over that…. I’m sure we are both noticing the...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideSeverity & FluctuationMindset shift