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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
1 points

I can understand that, interviews can be crushing sometimes. Aside from my ability to be flawless for 10-15 minutes straight (force of will + bag of tricks), they can be tough to do. One of my tricks,...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesEmployment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
1 points

I can talk perfectly fine for 10-15 minutes per shot, but I can't do it for longer than that. My stammer starts seeping through and then becomes like a snowball effect. I do it by using my bag of tric...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
postr/StutterMar 26, 2020
5 points

How Do You Unlearn How To Stutter?

How Do You Unlearn How To Stutter? When it comes to dealing with your stutter, I look at it in two different ways. 1) Fighting the stutter. Layering techniques on top of it such as fluency shaping ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
7 points

My stutter isn’t too serious, but it really hinders my ability to fire back answers, deliver punchlines or start conversations, so I mostly just stay quiet. As far I can tell no one at work knows I st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
1 points

It's toxic because it's a high demand job, often underpaid and overworked. People are constantly stressed out. I know there's jobs out there that you know what you're going to work on tomorrow, and th...

School & WorkCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerStress & Fight/FlightAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
1 points

Probably fart like I usually do. Then continue on with an inflated sense of confidence that would probably be crushed again in other ways. Life is short, don’t pity yourself! We all stink....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
1 points

This a really good speech, the content is great. But this is also IMHO a great example of someone who has really accepted and/or exercises no tools or control over their speech. Thoughts?...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
1 points

Hmmm, it sounds like a mixed bag of results. Part good, part bad. I was thinking that since I thought it looked like a hearing aid, that I could just say I can't hear well out of that ear as an excuse...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Assistive DevicesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
1 points

I have a boat load of tricks, and I also do it by shear force of will (years of experience). One of my tricks, might help you, it's very basic. Read a paragraph, notice where you stammer. Then re-read...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
1 points

Hmmm, I wish I could 'test' one out before buying it and giving it a shot. I have perfect control over my stutter for limited periods of time, a perfect and flawless fluency with my methods. But, I ca...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Assistive DevicesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
1 points

Do a speech on how all the people who don’t stutter but are too scared to give a speech are wussies. Jk but still...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
1 points

this happened to me too alot. then my mom pointed it out and i had to do excersizes to make it go away...

Anticipation & AvoidanceParent & Caregiver
Avoidance & SubstitutionEarly Concern & Onset
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
2 points

I got over it honestly. You must understand that workers at food places don't give a shit about clients, and I know that because I worked at McDonald's for 3 months. You could take centuries to order ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2020
9 points

When you say: ’let me get a....uuuuuuhhhhhhhhhhhhh....burger.’ Even though you’ve already decided what to get 200 times during the past minute or so....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2020
13 points

I used to do that but recently I've been taking the time to correct myself, painful as it is. The cashier can wait on me, I'm not embarrassed...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2020
1 points

I hate it when people do something like this, they replace the word to make it sound worse to prove their point. I get what you’re trying to say, but you’re ignoring the fact that stuttering is almos...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStigma & BullyingPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2020
2 points

Yes I try to speak even tho I stutter. I used to avoid speaking, but now I speak regardless. I guess I am frustrated because I know it's possible not to stutter and speak normally . As I said as respo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2020
1 points

You go!!! I hope you get that position. I am in my last year of high school and have very little public speaking experience due to stuttering. It's getting better, though. I hope to find more oppo...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Hope & MotivationAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2020
2 points

It’s really good in groups too. I’m in a close-knitted choir and when we have group talks during free time i just like to listen cause they’re all talking at the same time. They still include me someh...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2020
1 points

My close friends and family have the patience of saints when it comes to me, especially when it gets worse. I’m lucky that at least my close friends and family know not to cut me off, just the teacher...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment