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commentr/StutterMar 28, 2020
1 points

Dude it can’t be done. If it could, no one would stutter anymore....

Anticipation & Avoidance
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commentr/StutterMar 28, 2020
2 points

how are you helping anyone exactly ? you come in saying it cant be gotten rid off. okay bro so it didn't work out for you doesn't mean it cant work out for other people. And everyone stutters from tim...

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commentr/StutterMar 28, 2020
0 points

There’s no fucking cure. I think you’re trying to persuade yourself that it can be fixed, but it CAN’T. Instead of trying to get rid of it, look for ways to control and master it....

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commentr/StutterMar 28, 2020
1 points

Thanks for your detailed and well thought out response. Sorry that I took so long to reply myself, but I have been setting up residence in a new country (I’m nomadic), and covid-19 has made things “in...

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commentr/StutterMar 28, 2020
4 points

hey man im glad you are doing much better. Im 22 and have been stuttering for about 6 years i believe. But only now im actually gonna go ahead and work towards getting rid of it and not only that but ...

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commentr/StutterMar 28, 2020
-1 points

you know there was a time when noone thought 1000m or something could be run (i cant remember the proper distance) but there was one guy who thought differently and he actually managed to complete it...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2020
2 points

I stammered every day of my life, to everyone I met and couldn't even say "yes" when the teacher called my name for class, I went on many courses and nothing worked... Then I met my girlfriend and eve...

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commentr/StutterMar 28, 2020
2 points

Talking is talking. Stuttering is something else. Stuttering is a condition that affects talking. But yes, speech therapy can help with the stuttering. That's not just "getting good at talking", thou...

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commentr/StutterMar 28, 2020
5 points

talking is a skill, and like all skills you can sharpen it. Sure you cant get rid of it just by taking alone, its more to do with your thinking. But either way it does help. There are talking techniqu...

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commentr/StutterMar 28, 2020
4 points

I don't mean to be rude, but you can't get rid of stutter by simply speaking more. It's not like learning to ride a bike or something. However, since the fear of stuttering is indeed a factor that go...

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commentr/StutterMar 27, 2020
1 points

We can't reliably manage stutter by rehearsing like that. Speaking with others is a different mode of communication performance than speaking on our own, or speaking to an app. However, speaking wit...

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
1 points

But isn't there a sync between the brain and the speech muscles when a person is talking though? I have read this in countless articles by SLPs. Maybe I'm not describing it accurately because I'm not ...

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
1 points

It's not a stupid question there's an app for that I even used .you pronounce,read and as you read you record and listen your speech later it's called: STAMURAI...

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
5 points

Something that would help me practice was to record myself speaking. Something about recording myself placed an extra pressure on me, like someone listening does. Pretty good practice if you ask me....

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
1 points

> What you describe seems to be putting the cause of stutter entirely on you. This is not fruitful. It's not you who is to blame for anything - it's just that you have a stutter, and that means the...

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
4 points

If I block up for longer then 5 seconds i'll find another word to replace what I've been trying to say. Normally I just avoid talking altogether to anybody....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
1 points

I get what you mean about the force of will and bag of tricks. Thanks to that, a lot of people don't notice that I stutter until I tell them. A lot of times, a special situation triggers my stutter. L...

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
1 points

Hahahaha, ohh that is the worst. I am constantly joking, so I see that face much more than I would like. Zingers don't zing if they take a full minute to get out....

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
2 points

The irony is, if you look at the pictures backwards (starting with the bottom right, then left, then top)... it's what a person may experience when trying to have a serious conversation with someone c...

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
1 points

This probably only happened to me a few times my whole life. Usually I'll go through the joke in my head of what I'll say before I say it, to make sure I can say it before I actually do....

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