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commentr/StutterMay 15, 2019
1 points

Currently making 50K but this new gig would be 70K. The job's primary duty is to build and strengthen relationships with people and departments that have been slacking off or not putting in the effort...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2019
3 points

What makes you think the following wouldn't hold for the new potential situation? Having worked for a larger organization (finance industry) in the past, people tend to be little bit more cuttthroat...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2019
5 points

What makes you think the following wouldn't hold for the new potential situation? >People are very accepting and okay if I do stutter at times. - Also: >long hours Hm, do you perceive your ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
postr/StutterMay 15, 2019
12 points

Lacking Confidence to Accept a New Job

Lacking Confidence to Accept a New Job I'm currently working at a small business and the environment here is perfect for my speech. I rarely interact with high level management and its also very laid ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2019
1 points

I notice people have a hard time understanding me clearly based on their facial expression (squinting their eyes, etc.) Other times, I have some people that have told me I mumble in the past. Conf...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Physical TensionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 14, 2019
13 points

Had a terrible first shift.

Had a terrible first shift. So basically I got a job at a restaurant where if you work till you have to ask a thousand questions to the customers. This, coupled with nervousness made it a terrible shi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2019
2 points

how did you improve your public speaking skill? i just stuttered yesterday during class presentation and i tell you i'm still feeling like a dumb person, i have practiced at home.. no problem whatsoev...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 12, 2019
34 points

I have a big interview tomorrow, we all know the pain. wish me luck!

I have a big interview tomorrow, we all know the pain. wish me luck! This's a very important interview in my career and that's what make it more difficult and making more way more nervous. but what th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2019
1 points

I haven't noticed any change in my stuttering when I drink. But my stutter mostly comes out when I'm at home with family or when I have to give presentations. When I'm out with friends, I don't normal...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2019
2 points

Don't worry about being looked down on for choosing not to drink alcohol as much as your friends. Once you're out of University, you'll be glad you were able to stand up for yourself, even if it seems...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2019
3 points

Ugh, I know how that is! It’s like strangers hearing your stutter irl makes them think their opinions on how you handle it are warranted. But someone who speaks fluently just doesn’t know the mental b...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2019
8 points

Really? Mine nearly completely goes away every time. Although I feel like my stutter is due to anxiety from my stutter (one fucked up circle lol) so i literally forget about stuttering when I’m sloshe...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2019
2 points

I think the problem with "umms" and "aas" is in the long run they lose their effectiveness and are more of a workaround as opposing to addressing the actual problem: your fear of being perceived as ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2019
1 points

It's good you've pinpointed a possible cause. I would also personally advise not getting too stressed about the very act of stuttering itself. Speaking from experience, worrying about stuttering can ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2019
1 points

Same here. I really hate talking on the phone when you can only hear someone in one ear. I don't know how people do that....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2019
2 points

I've noticed that, like another commenter said, being slightly distracted helps me while on the phone. I can't just be only concentrating on a phone call, I have to be doing something else, like drivi...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2019
1 points

I have social anxiety, mostly due to my stuttering, and none of the medications I’ve tried so far have ever really helped tbh....

Emotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHarmful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2019
2 points

What confidence? Honestly though, when I was growing up, I was really outgoing and was never afraid to put myself out there. As I’ve gotten older though, I’ve become a lot more self conscious about m...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2019
2 points

For me. I feel like it's fueled by anxiety 80%. When I'm playing online with my friends in comfortable situation I bearly stutter. Hell, I even talk shit fluently lol but when I'm asked a question whe...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2019
1 points

A lot. It kills your confidence and makes you reluctant to socialize, even with friends. I still need to work on not giving a fuck...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & SubstitutionFriendships & Belonging